"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Want to stay with GF but play the field

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Ok guys I'm in sort of a situation here. I'm with a girl. Wife material at that. 25, 3 prior sexual partners, educated, good family background, takes care of me, def a sweetheart. She's really nothing I can complain about. Problem is I have a sort of commitment issue. I would like to keep here but get a few more notches on my bed post before I decide if I want to marry or not. I figured you guys would be the ones to help me out with some tactics on pulling this off. If I marry I will remain loyal. There is just no ring on the finger right now so I want to take advantage. I travel all over North America with work, I make decent money 100,000.00+ a year, I could afford to drop a few pounds. So can any of you guys help me out on how to pull this off without getting caught?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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bootypirate250

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i dont think you will find help on this forum. this site is not about cheating on your gf. there is still a high level of respect on this forum
 

ImTheDoubleGreatest!

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It's so simple:

You don't. You found the needle in the haystack and now your gonna drop it? Wth is the matter with you?
 

djthiago1

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That sounds incredibly retarded. Don't do something to someone that you don't want to happen to you.
 

Fr. Andrew

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In fact, I hope you do cheat on her, she catches you, and she leaves you for somebody with moral character.
 
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NEPA said:
Ok guys I'm in sort of a situation here. I'm with a girl. Wife material at that. 25, 3 prior sexual partners, educated, good family background, takes care of me, def a sweetheart. She's really nothing I can complain about. Problem is I have a sort of commitment issue. I would like to keep here but get a few more notches on my bed post before I decide if I want to marry or not. I figured you guys would be the ones to help me out with some tactics on pulling this off. If I marry I will remain loyal. There is just no ring on the finger right now so I want to take advantage. I travel all over North America with work, I make decent money 100,000.00+ a year, I could afford to drop a few pounds. So can any of you guys help me out on how to pull this off without getting caught?
Yeah right. You have gingivitis. Your teeth are rotten.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Yorkex

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Why don't you just date and sleep around ?
Developing a cheating habit is bad , it will only get worst.
 

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NEPA said:
Ok guys I'm in sort of a situation here. I'm with a girl. Wife material at that. 25, 3 prior sexual partners, educated, good family background, takes care of me, def a sweetheart. She's really nothing I can complain about. Problem is I have a sort of commitment issue. I would like to keep here but get a few more notches on my bed post before I decide if I want to marry or not. I figured you guys would be the ones to help me out with some tactics on pulling this off. If I marry I will remain loyal. There is just no ring on the finger right now so I want to take advantage. I travel all over North America with work, I make decent money 100,000.00+ a year, I could afford to drop a few pounds. So can any of you guys help me out on how to pull this off without getting caught?
But you aren't potty trained yet? What's it like for girls to have to change your diapers? Isn't it pathetic that you are 25 years old and still in diapers?
 

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NEPA said:
Ok guys I'm in sort of a situation here. I'm with a girl. Wife material at that. 25, 3 prior sexual partners, educated, good family background, takes care of me, def a sweetheart. She's really nothing I can complain about. Problem is I have a sort of commitment issue. I would like to keep here but get a few more notches on my bed post before I decide if I want to marry or not. I figured you guys would be the ones to help me out with some tactics on pulling this off. If I marry I will remain loyal. There is just no ring on the finger right now so I want to take advantage. I travel all over North America with work, I make decent money 100,000.00+ a year, I could afford to drop a few pounds. So can any of you guys help me out on how to pull this off without getting caught?
Use tinder when you are on your business trips. Don't give your phone number out and never see a girl more than once. Only date while out of your home city. You may find after you get it out of your system, you will settle down
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

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