"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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want to make friends with girls even though got bf and crew?

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I was actually able to go out last night had pretty good interaction with a girl i met actually flirted a little and stuff she had a boyfriend though i was cool with still making friends though i went and hung out with them and afterwards was wanting to get her number to hangout she gave me her number but was questioning with boyfriend i said it aint like that just lookin to kick it and obviously now she isnt replying. if girl has bf and you guys have good interaction and they guys like you how do you go about still wanting to be their friends and not have them think you tryin to get the girl?

how do I go about closing to get to be friends with the guy and girl both?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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devilkingx2

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you don't want to be friends with a girl who has a bf, it's probably not going to work out for you.

just befriend her bf like you'd befriend anyone, because it's gonna be hard to try and talk to her without it seeming like you're trying to get her
 

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If you are attracted to this girl I hope your bigger and stronger than the BF as it may not end well for you. If it seems like she's tired of her BF then maybe try weasel yourself in there but you will be just a rebound.
 
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