"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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want to make friends with girls even though got bf and crew?

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I was actually able to go out last night had pretty good interaction with a girl i met actually flirted a little and stuff she had a boyfriend though i was cool with still making friends though i went and hung out with them and afterwards was wanting to get her number to hangout she gave me her number but was questioning with boyfriend i said it aint like that just lookin to kick it and obviously now she isnt replying. if girl has bf and you guys have good interaction and they guys like you how do you go about still wanting to be their friends and not have them think you tryin to get the girl?

how do I go about closing to get to be friends with the guy and girl both?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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devilkingx2

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you don't want to be friends with a girl who has a bf, it's probably not going to work out for you.

just befriend her bf like you'd befriend anyone, because it's gonna be hard to try and talk to her without it seeming like you're trying to get her
 

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If you are attracted to this girl I hope your bigger and stronger than the BF as it may not end well for you. If it seems like she's tired of her BF then maybe try weasel yourself in there but you will be just a rebound.
 
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