"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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want to date this girl

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ive talked to her like once after school, one day and then i saw her at the mall with some other people i knew nad said like hi but nothing else. Now for some reason im feeling interested in this girl, idk i feel like i want to get with her, yet i dont care if i dont succeed i just want to try this out. So im confused, how should i srat things with her, when i never see her pretty much.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Just talk to her....lol

You know...chatting with her, getting some form of rapport, so those seeing her at the mall approaches will be cake.
 

eminence

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you've talked to her once and you want to date her? think about what your saying here. Did you not come to this forum to learn how to become more of a DJ?
 

Michele l'Arcangelo

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eminence said:
you've talked to her once and you want to date her? think about what your saying here. Did you not come to this forum to learn how to become more of a DJ?
DUDE... I was thinking the exact same thing yesterday... I just didn't want to be the one saying that.
 
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