"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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we all eat food

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ive talked to her like once after school, one day and then i saw her at the mall with some other people i knew nad said like hi but nothing else. Now for some reason im feeling interested in this girl, idk i feel like i want to get with her, yet i dont care if i dont succeed i just want to try this out. So im confused, how should i srat things with her, when i never see her pretty much.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Just talk to her....lol

You know...chatting with her, getting some form of rapport, so those seeing her at the mall approaches will be cake.
 
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you've talked to her once and you want to date her? think about what your saying here. Did you not come to this forum to learn how to become more of a DJ?
 
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eminence said:
you've talked to her once and you want to date her? think about what your saying here. Did you not come to this forum to learn how to become more of a DJ?
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DUDE... I was thinking the exact same thing yesterday... I just didn't want to be the one saying that.
 
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