"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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want to date this girl

we all eat food

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ive talked to her like once after school, one day and then i saw her at the mall with some other people i knew nad said like hi but nothing else. Now for some reason im feeling interested in this girl, idk i feel like i want to get with her, yet i dont care if i dont succeed i just want to try this out. So im confused, how should i srat things with her, when i never see her pretty much.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Just talk to her....lol

You know...chatting with her, getting some form of rapport, so those seeing her at the mall approaches will be cake.
 

eminence

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you've talked to her once and you want to date her? think about what your saying here. Did you not come to this forum to learn how to become more of a DJ?
 

Michele l'Arcangelo

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eminence said:
you've talked to her once and you want to date her? think about what your saying here. Did you not come to this forum to learn how to become more of a DJ?
DUDE... I was thinking the exact same thing yesterday... I just didn't want to be the one saying that.
 
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