"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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want to approach a girl at work..

lollerbate

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so i work at a computer lab at my school, and there's this cute chick who comes in maybe once or twice a week.

i've been wanting to approach for a while now but it's kind of hard since:
a.) it's kind of inappropriate for me to do that during work
b.) it'd be awkward for me to just go up and talk to her out of nowhere.. since we have no previous acquaintances
c.) bad setting, since excessive talking isn't allowed in the lab, and there's a ton of people around at all times
d.) i'm a *****

i've been waiting for her to ask me for computer help so i would have an excuse to talk to her.. (i'm a tech) but she seems pretty computer savvy, so my options are pretty limited. :whistle:

any suggestions?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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First workplace relationships are a no no but that should not stop you from simply walking past her and say hello, makem a point of saying hello to other people around engage in some small talk, after this happens a few times she will become relaxed with you then you will find the opportunities will open up.
 

lollerbate

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Augie said:
First workplace relationships are a no no but that should not stop you from simply walking past her and say hello, makem a point of saying hello to other people around engage in some small talk, after this happens a few times she will become relaxed with you then you will find the opportunities will open up.
Well, she doesn't work here. She comes in to use the computers as a student from time to time.
 
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