"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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want to approach a girl at work..

lollerbate

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so i work at a computer lab at my school, and there's this cute chick who comes in maybe once or twice a week.

i've been wanting to approach for a while now but it's kind of hard since:
a.) it's kind of inappropriate for me to do that during work
b.) it'd be awkward for me to just go up and talk to her out of nowhere.. since we have no previous acquaintances
c.) bad setting, since excessive talking isn't allowed in the lab, and there's a ton of people around at all times
d.) i'm a *****

i've been waiting for her to ask me for computer help so i would have an excuse to talk to her.. (i'm a tech) but she seems pretty computer savvy, so my options are pretty limited. :whistle:

any suggestions?
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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First workplace relationships are a no no but that should not stop you from simply walking past her and say hello, makem a point of saying hello to other people around engage in some small talk, after this happens a few times she will become relaxed with you then you will find the opportunities will open up.
 

lollerbate

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Augie said:
First workplace relationships are a no no but that should not stop you from simply walking past her and say hello, makem a point of saying hello to other people around engage in some small talk, after this happens a few times she will become relaxed with you then you will find the opportunities will open up.
Well, she doesn't work here. She comes in to use the computers as a student from time to time.
 
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