"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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want to approach a girl at work..

lollerbate

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so i work at a computer lab at my school, and there's this cute chick who comes in maybe once or twice a week.

i've been wanting to approach for a while now but it's kind of hard since:
a.) it's kind of inappropriate for me to do that during work
b.) it'd be awkward for me to just go up and talk to her out of nowhere.. since we have no previous acquaintances
c.) bad setting, since excessive talking isn't allowed in the lab, and there's a ton of people around at all times
d.) i'm a *****

i've been waiting for her to ask me for computer help so i would have an excuse to talk to her.. (i'm a tech) but she seems pretty computer savvy, so my options are pretty limited. :whistle:

any suggestions?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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First workplace relationships are a no no but that should not stop you from simply walking past her and say hello, makem a point of saying hello to other people around engage in some small talk, after this happens a few times she will become relaxed with you then you will find the opportunities will open up.
 

lollerbate

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Augie said:
First workplace relationships are a no no but that should not stop you from simply walking past her and say hello, makem a point of saying hello to other people around engage in some small talk, after this happens a few times she will become relaxed with you then you will find the opportunities will open up.
Well, she doesn't work here. She comes in to use the computers as a student from time to time.
 
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