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Don Juan
- Joined
- Mar 15, 2017
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- Age
- 45
I ended a 7 year LTR 2 years ago and have been dating since. I have dropped online dating as of a year ago. I had good success with online dating, better than 50% sexual activity with girls I met.
Since that time i've either recycled girls I met from online dating or tried to line up dates with girls I meet IRL. IRL i'm getting numbers, but i'm not having much success lining up dates. I'm losing girls in texting, or they are not responding to my first contact after getting their number.
I usually just go straight for a time and place to meet up.
ex) "Hi, it's (My Name) we met at xxx and I want to take you out (place and time)"
Sometimes I'll call.
Problem is i'm getting lost after this. Either they'll agree, and then flake or text me to death and then flake.
The last 8 numbers i've got have gone no where.
The last girl was a black girl and after setting up the date she hit me up with
"So you like chocolate, lol"
I'm white. I've slept with and dated a few black girls.
I said, "We're gonna find out".
"Woa, you've never talked to a black girl before?"
.... come on
"I'll see you (at date location)"
This bugged her out.
But basically, whereas online when I went right for the first date without talking to much, and it worked. With girls i'm meeting IRL i'm getting sucked into them wanting to know more about me and then they are disappearing.
After you line up the date, and they hit you up, do you just not respond until the date, deflect, **** pic?
Since that time i've either recycled girls I met from online dating or tried to line up dates with girls I meet IRL. IRL i'm getting numbers, but i'm not having much success lining up dates. I'm losing girls in texting, or they are not responding to my first contact after getting their number.
I usually just go straight for a time and place to meet up.
ex) "Hi, it's (My Name) we met at xxx and I want to take you out (place and time)"
Sometimes I'll call.
Problem is i'm getting lost after this. Either they'll agree, and then flake or text me to death and then flake.
The last 8 numbers i've got have gone no where.
The last girl was a black girl and after setting up the date she hit me up with
"So you like chocolate, lol"
I'm white. I've slept with and dated a few black girls.
I said, "We're gonna find out".
"Woa, you've never talked to a black girl before?"
.... come on
"I'll see you (at date location)"
This bugged her out.
But basically, whereas online when I went right for the first date without talking to much, and it worked. With girls i'm meeting IRL i'm getting sucked into them wanting to know more about me and then they are disappearing.
After you line up the date, and they hit you up, do you just not respond until the date, deflect, **** pic?
