"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Arizona iced tea

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tis my senior year now and i kinda want a GF now... im wondering if anyone has an opinion whether or not to get a gf in my senior year. my friend told me not to because i would most likely break up with her before college, but idk if it would even last that long lol. on the other hand i like to keep my options open...

so just what would you guys do? play the field or settle down...

tia
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Grand Wizzard Alamar

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Well if you really want one, go get one.
It won't be armageddon or anything if it doesn't work out. :p
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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If you get a girlfriend your school work must come first. I've known guys who finally got a girlfriend their senior year and spent most their time to be with their girl. They would cut classes to be with one another or stay out till there parents wanted them home and didn't do there homework. Then, got bad grades and almost didnt graduate. Sounds silly but, girls can have a over great power over you. Hopefully, that won't happen to you! So, if you want a girlfriend go for it. If not, thats your decsion
 

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Arizona iced tea said:
haha, its not like i do my homework anyway :p

Then splitting up before college aint a prob, as you won't be going.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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while you are young with no adult responsibilities, your job is to learn everything you can at school and to experience life right now.
so go out there and spin those plates and sow those oats before you get into a ltr with some chick.
things you should be planning for right now are things about cars, the gym, hanging with your buddies, your education and what college you will attend, and what you will make of your life in the end.
women, should not be a first priority right now.

who wants a gf that gets pissed off later and says you lead her on to thinking you would end up at the same college and live together happily ever after when you are a senior in high school?

my advice is play the field!!
 

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penkitten said:
while you are young with no adult responsibilities, your job is to learn everything you can at school and to experience life right now.
so go out there and spin those plates and sow those oats before you get into a ltr with some chick.
things you should be planning for right now are things about cars, the gym, hanging with your buddies, your education and what college you will attend, and what you will make of your life in the end.
women, should not be a first priority right now.

who wants a gf that gets pissed off later and says you lead her on to thinking you would end up at the same college and live together happily ever after when you are a senior in high school?

my advice is play the field!!
that is exactly the kind of response im looking for.
 

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Arizona iced tea said:
that is exactly the kind of response im looking for.
if some chick is barking up your tree right now for a ltr ...
tell her that you are going thru a "me" phase right now
that right now its all about "me getting ready for college"
 
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