"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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want an opinion...

Arizona iced tea

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tis my senior year now and i kinda want a GF now... im wondering if anyone has an opinion whether or not to get a gf in my senior year. my friend told me not to because i would most likely break up with her before college, but idk if it would even last that long lol. on the other hand i like to keep my options open...

so just what would you guys do? play the field or settle down...

tia
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Grand Wizzard Alamar

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Well if you really want one, go get one.
It won't be armageddon or anything if it doesn't work out. :p
 

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If you get a girlfriend your school work must come first. I've known guys who finally got a girlfriend their senior year and spent most their time to be with their girl. They would cut classes to be with one another or stay out till there parents wanted them home and didn't do there homework. Then, got bad grades and almost didnt graduate. Sounds silly but, girls can have a over great power over you. Hopefully, that won't happen to you! So, if you want a girlfriend go for it. If not, thats your decsion
 

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Arizona iced tea said:
haha, its not like i do my homework anyway :p

Then splitting up before college aint a prob, as you won't be going.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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while you are young with no adult responsibilities, your job is to learn everything you can at school and to experience life right now.
so go out there and spin those plates and sow those oats before you get into a ltr with some chick.
things you should be planning for right now are things about cars, the gym, hanging with your buddies, your education and what college you will attend, and what you will make of your life in the end.
women, should not be a first priority right now.

who wants a gf that gets pissed off later and says you lead her on to thinking you would end up at the same college and live together happily ever after when you are a senior in high school?

my advice is play the field!!
 

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penkitten said:
while you are young with no adult responsibilities, your job is to learn everything you can at school and to experience life right now.
so go out there and spin those plates and sow those oats before you get into a ltr with some chick.
things you should be planning for right now are things about cars, the gym, hanging with your buddies, your education and what college you will attend, and what you will make of your life in the end.
women, should not be a first priority right now.

who wants a gf that gets pissed off later and says you lead her on to thinking you would end up at the same college and live together happily ever after when you are a senior in high school?

my advice is play the field!!
that is exactly the kind of response im looking for.
 

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Arizona iced tea said:
that is exactly the kind of response im looking for.
if some chick is barking up your tree right now for a ltr ...
tell her that you are going thru a "me" phase right now
that right now its all about "me getting ready for college"
 
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