http://deadspin.com/5251547/a-special-balls-deep-message-to-the-class-of-2009
Now, talk about how to do it YOUR way, if you've actually done it.
Now, talk about how to do it YOUR way, if you've actually done it.
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Want an average life when you grow up? Here..
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
but wait, there is more!
http://deadspin.com/5015813/a-special-balls-deep-message-to-the-class-of-2008#c6171094
I'll throw the line - you have to work hard. NOW. while you are young. while you have the energy.
dont have kids
dont get married until 30's
dont get addicted to drugs
put in your time NOW and your life should not suck. this is me peraphrasing dozens of smart successful people i've met
http://deadspin.com/5015813/a-special-balls-deep-message-to-the-class-of-2008#c6171094
I'll throw the line - you have to work hard. NOW. while you are young. while you have the energy.
dont have kids
dont get married until 30's
dont get addicted to drugs
put in your time NOW and your life should not suck. this is me peraphrasing dozens of smart successful people i've met
Lastly, this guy I actually know personally, and he has done more fun things than... 99% of people here myself included. Seriously, read his book if you don't believe me.
in any case, here is a link to his address to college kids, if he was to give one.
IT IS AMAZING. PDF format.
his site is http://philalawyer.net if you wanted to read more. which you will.
in any case, here is a link to his address to college kids, if he was to give one.
IT IS AMAZING. PDF format.
his site is http://philalawyer.net if you wanted to read more. which you will.
Fantastic Mr. Fox
Don Juan
I wish I wasn't such a lazy bastard over the last year. 2009 sucked. Time to get my @$$ in gear and get out there 
Thanks for the post. Insightful. Humorous. Glorious.
Thanks for the post. Insightful. Humorous. Glorious.
omkara
Senior Don Juan
wow, and I thought not having a girlfriend was bad. Of course things are going to end up like this if you are cynical and don't find meaning in anything. Then what is the point of doing anything? This is why it is helpful to gain some perspective before walking down the more conventional path. Then you know why you are doing it all and how to do it properly hopefully (e.g. don't let your kids do whatever they want and come screaming into the room at 6 A.M.)
This also shows how college is really an aberration. Eventually we have to come back to cold, hard reality. Hell, even if you try to stay in college, it's not the same when you get older. People talk about how great college is, and how there is so much action. Well, not for everyone. For a lot of people it's more like, being around a lot of attractive young girls and not being able to f*** them. I'd rather just not be around them at all. I don't live in a dorm, I don't know anyone in this area of the country (or my home town anymore, lol), and I just transferred in to graduate in a year. So it's really not a social thing anymore. In spite of trying to live like a college kid perpetually, I've been forced to move on. It's not like I'm going to be hanging out with the 19 year old kids in my English class. They are too dumb and materialistic anyway. I'm glad I'm going to graduate so I can be around more thoughtful people, instead of hearing about how "dude, I got soooo drunk last night!"
This also shows how college is really an aberration. Eventually we have to come back to cold, hard reality. Hell, even if you try to stay in college, it's not the same when you get older. People talk about how great college is, and how there is so much action. Well, not for everyone. For a lot of people it's more like, being around a lot of attractive young girls and not being able to f*** them. I'd rather just not be around them at all. I don't live in a dorm, I don't know anyone in this area of the country (or my home town anymore, lol), and I just transferred in to graduate in a year. So it's really not a social thing anymore. In spite of trying to live like a college kid perpetually, I've been forced to move on. It's not like I'm going to be hanging out with the 19 year old kids in my English class. They are too dumb and materialistic anyway. I'm glad I'm going to graduate so I can be around more thoughtful people, instead of hearing about how "dude, I got soooo drunk last night!"
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Metaphysical
Senior Don Juan
that's a really f$$ked up way to look at life
sodbuster
Master Don Juan
think I'll have my sons read it