"Want a man a man to propose? be a b!tch"

[Chromeo]

look at this article I found, basically telling women to have the DJ mentality as well

http://today.msnbc.msn.com/id/13231665/

I think this is the kinda woman were probably all looking for but to keep a girl like that you definitely have to be that kinda man yourself.

Its funny cuz we all have these issues with chasing woman and wondering "what am i doin wrong" blah blah

yet we have all had girls weve said peace to because, they had low confidence, bothersome, stage5 clingers. We know what they were doing wrong, so why dont we learn and project that information on ourselves as well when were in a situation where we are diggin a chick?

just experience i guess.

 

[zekko]

I'm not marrying some *****.

From the article:

“What's the advantage of having this guy around?”
“How do I feel about myself after I’ve been in his company?”
“What’s in it for me?”

And then a funny thing happens: He falls all over himself to be with her.

Bullsh!t.
A guy wants a woman who adores him.

 

[Chromeo]

no its definitely true. All of that is what we like to call sh!t tests.

except when a man falls all over himself to be with her, he loses his value and gets dumped.

the woman will adore him when he can pass her sh!t tests and not fall all over himself

 

[J. Darko]

Girls are too busy to read this sh*t.

 

[mikeyb]

I'll bet most girls wouldn't have the balls to pull this sort of thing off even if they read about it. We've had much more practice .

 

[squirrels]

“What's the advantage of having this guy around?”
“How do I feel about myself after I’ve been in his company?”
“What’s in it for me?”

This is what EVERY "RELATIONSHIP" should be based on. These are the questions that people should ask themselves when considering whether they want to commit to someone, both the man AND the woman.

That's the problem with modern "relationships"...people are so afraid of the person they're with "not being the one" that they don't ASK these questions. Then when this stuff comes to the forefront a couple years later, they're already in too deep.

Your mate is the ONLY member of your family you will EVER be able to choose. BE SELFISH with that choice. Don't confuse being selfish with the choice with being a selfish person. Worry about "giving" AFTER the choice is made.