"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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"Want a man a man to propose? be a b!tch"

Chromeo

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look at this article I found, basically telling women to have the DJ mentality as well

http://today.msnbc.msn.com/id/13231665/


I think this is the kinda woman were probably all looking for but to keep a girl like that you definitely have to be that kinda man yourself.

Its funny cuz we all have these issues with chasing woman and wondering "what am i doin wrong" blah blah

yet we have all had girls weve said peace to because, they had low confidence, bothersome, stage5 clingers. We know what they were doing wrong, so why dont we learn and project that information on ourselves as well when were in a situation where we are diggin a chick?

just experience i guess.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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zekko

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I'm not marrying some *****.

From the article:
“What's the advantage of having this guy around?”
“How do I feel about myself after I’ve been in his company?”
“What’s in it for me?”

And then a funny thing happens: He falls all over himself to be with her.
Bullsh!t.
A guy wants a woman who adores him.
 

Chromeo

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no its definitely true. All of that is what we like to call sh!t tests.

except when a man falls all over himself to be with her, he loses his value and gets dumped.

the woman will adore him when he can pass her sh!t tests and not fall all over himself
 

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I'll bet most girls wouldn't have the balls to pull this sort of thing off even if they read about it. We've had much more practice ;).
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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zekko said:
“What's the advantage of having this guy around?”
“How do I feel about myself after I’ve been in his company?”
“What’s in it for me?”
This is what EVERY "RELATIONSHIP" should be based on. These are the questions that people should ask themselves when considering whether they want to commit to someone, both the man AND the woman.

That's the problem with modern "relationships"...people are so afraid of the person they're with "not being the one" that they don't ASK these questions. Then when this stuff comes to the forefront a couple years later, they're already in too deep.

Your mate is the ONLY member of your family you will EVER be able to choose. BE SELFISH with that choice. Don't confuse being selfish with the choice with being a selfish person. Worry about "giving" AFTER the choice is made.
 
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