"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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"Want a man a man to propose? be a b!tch"

Chromeo

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look at this article I found, basically telling women to have the DJ mentality as well

http://today.msnbc.msn.com/id/13231665/


I think this is the kinda woman were probably all looking for but to keep a girl like that you definitely have to be that kinda man yourself.

Its funny cuz we all have these issues with chasing woman and wondering "what am i doin wrong" blah blah

yet we have all had girls weve said peace to because, they had low confidence, bothersome, stage5 clingers. We know what they were doing wrong, so why dont we learn and project that information on ourselves as well when were in a situation where we are diggin a chick?

just experience i guess.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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zekko

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I'm not marrying some *****.

From the article:
“What's the advantage of having this guy around?”
“How do I feel about myself after I’ve been in his company?”
“What’s in it for me?”

And then a funny thing happens: He falls all over himself to be with her.
Bullsh!t.
A guy wants a woman who adores him.
 

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no its definitely true. All of that is what we like to call sh!t tests.

except when a man falls all over himself to be with her, he loses his value and gets dumped.

the woman will adore him when he can pass her sh!t tests and not fall all over himself
 

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I'll bet most girls wouldn't have the balls to pull this sort of thing off even if they read about it. We've had much more practice ;).
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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zekko said:
“What's the advantage of having this guy around?”
“How do I feel about myself after I’ve been in his company?”
“What’s in it for me?”
This is what EVERY "RELATIONSHIP" should be based on. These are the questions that people should ask themselves when considering whether they want to commit to someone, both the man AND the woman.

That's the problem with modern "relationships"...people are so afraid of the person they're with "not being the one" that they don't ASK these questions. Then when this stuff comes to the forefront a couple years later, they're already in too deep.

Your mate is the ONLY member of your family you will EVER be able to choose. BE SELFISH with that choice. Don't confuse being selfish with the choice with being a selfish person. Worry about "giving" AFTER the choice is made.
 
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