"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Wanna use the 3 second rule but you don't have the BALLS??? Here's a way that works!

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(By the way, the 3 seconds rule says that you MUST approach a girl between 3 seconds of noticing her in order to avoid hesitating and feeling nervous and you gain by showing her you got BALLS and go for what you want. That makes you more desirable.)

It's simple and concrete.
I made a pact with myself, everytime I don't use the 3 seconds rule, I give money to someone who seems to need it. You know, some women with children that look hungry, someone who really needs it.

That way, if I don't do the world good by sharing the goodies (myself :D !) with the ladies, I'm forced to do another kind of good, and I lose money.

I'm honest, I'm not using the 3 sec rule everytime I see a hot chick and she's approchable, but my rate is MUCH higher in approches/non aproaches and it keeps going up!

By the way, each time I don't approach is 25 cents. I'm waiting to get somewhere around $5 to make it worth it.

This helps me out in being compromised with myself.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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That sounds like a good idea. I'm thinking about using the 3 sec rule but I usually stall and start thinking about what to say aside from the typical "Hello", How ya doin'?" or "What's your name?". I know a lot of people reccomend using a simple basic approach but it kinda seems like it would be awkward sometimes. I mean how would you feel if some guy walked up to you and said "Hey guys, my name is Soandso,who are you?" Also, if I only give myself 3 sec's I have no idea what I would say afterwards to "create value" or whatever you wanna call that thing that makes people interested in continuing to talk to you.

P.s. I hear a lot of people talk about cold-reading. Is there a place I can get some of those concepts for free
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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For a moment I thought you were gonna be like "check it out. Let me introduce you all to THE TWO AND A HALF SECONDS RULE". :p


Originally posted by Starriol
everytime I don't use the 3 seconds rule, I give money to someone who seems to need it. You know, some women with children that look hungry, someone who really needs it.
I can just picture a guy going to one of the really skinny-looking model-type chicks holding a $5 in his hand, sayin "Here, buy yourself a sandwich".
 

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Re: Re: Wanna use the 3 second rule but you don't have the BALLS??? Here's a way that

Originally posted by Gonzalo
For a moment I thought you were gonna be like "check it out. Let me introduce you all to THE TWO AND A HALF SECONDS RULE". :p




I can just picture a guy going to one of the really skinny-looking model-type chicks holding a $5 in his hand, sayin "Here, buy yourself a sandwich".
It might work.
 

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I can just picture a guy going to one of the really skinny-looking model-type chicks holding a $5 in his hand, sayin "Here, buy yourself a sandwich
:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
 

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I once did same. For every hot chick I could have approached, but didn't, I decided to do 5 sit ups and 5 push ups.

Well, the system sort of fell apart when I realized that this will make me die from exaustion. :)

Just approach. And if you don't, then you must have had a good reason. :) No use feeling guilty - just approach the next one.

That's to be alpha - you don't have to explain yourself to anyone, even yourself.
 
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