"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Wanna use the 3 second rule but you don't have the BALLS??? Here's a way that works!

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(By the way, the 3 seconds rule says that you MUST approach a girl between 3 seconds of noticing her in order to avoid hesitating and feeling nervous and you gain by showing her you got BALLS and go for what you want. That makes you more desirable.)

It's simple and concrete.
I made a pact with myself, everytime I don't use the 3 seconds rule, I give money to someone who seems to need it. You know, some women with children that look hungry, someone who really needs it.

That way, if I don't do the world good by sharing the goodies (myself :D !) with the ladies, I'm forced to do another kind of good, and I lose money.

I'm honest, I'm not using the 3 sec rule everytime I see a hot chick and she's approchable, but my rate is MUCH higher in approches/non aproaches and it keeps going up!

By the way, each time I don't approach is 25 cents. I'm waiting to get somewhere around $5 to make it worth it.

This helps me out in being compromised with myself.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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If it works, more power to you.

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That sounds like a good idea. I'm thinking about using the 3 sec rule but I usually stall and start thinking about what to say aside from the typical "Hello", How ya doin'?" or "What's your name?". I know a lot of people reccomend using a simple basic approach but it kinda seems like it would be awkward sometimes. I mean how would you feel if some guy walked up to you and said "Hey guys, my name is Soandso,who are you?" Also, if I only give myself 3 sec's I have no idea what I would say afterwards to "create value" or whatever you wanna call that thing that makes people interested in continuing to talk to you.

P.s. I hear a lot of people talk about cold-reading. Is there a place I can get some of those concepts for free
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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For a moment I thought you were gonna be like "check it out. Let me introduce you all to THE TWO AND A HALF SECONDS RULE". :p


Originally posted by Starriol
everytime I don't use the 3 seconds rule, I give money to someone who seems to need it. You know, some women with children that look hungry, someone who really needs it.
I can just picture a guy going to one of the really skinny-looking model-type chicks holding a $5 in his hand, sayin "Here, buy yourself a sandwich".
 

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Re: Re: Wanna use the 3 second rule but you don't have the BALLS??? Here's a way that

Originally posted by Gonzalo
For a moment I thought you were gonna be like "check it out. Let me introduce you all to THE TWO AND A HALF SECONDS RULE". :p




I can just picture a guy going to one of the really skinny-looking model-type chicks holding a $5 in his hand, sayin "Here, buy yourself a sandwich".
It might work.
 

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I can just picture a guy going to one of the really skinny-looking model-type chicks holding a $5 in his hand, sayin "Here, buy yourself a sandwich
:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
 

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I once did same. For every hot chick I could have approached, but didn't, I decided to do 5 sit ups and 5 push ups.

Well, the system sort of fell apart when I realized that this will make me die from exaustion. :)

Just approach. And if you don't, then you must have had a good reason. :) No use feeling guilty - just approach the next one.

That's to be alpha - you don't have to explain yourself to anyone, even yourself.
 
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