Wanna stop talking to her

[AntoniousIV]

So there's a girl I've went out with a couple of times, over the course of 4 months. It's long distance. And it was all fine in the beginning, but I guess I've made some mistakes recently. Maybe me trying to double her my response time when her responses were unreasonable (2h+) was a mistake.
And recently she's been taking 5+ hours to respond to my messages. She used to respond quick.
And it's really annoying. She's probably lost interest and that's why she's doing it right?

She recently flaked on a date saying "I gotta go to my girlfriends birthday sorry, and it would really mean a lot to her if I was there."
-I said okay, have a good time.
And after 6 hours she said
-Thanks
-When are you coming again
-I don't wanna do this to you again
I asked her to come spend the weekend at my place (she'd done it once beforehand, 2months ago) , and after 4hours she said:
"wow... are you serious...." which prolly means she doesn't want to, and is maybe disguested for whatever reason

Idk what to do. Do I respond immediately? Do I wait 8hours to respond? What do I even say? With this recent message I'm like 90% sure she's not interested.

The only reason I'm entertaining something long distance is because I'm moving to her city for college in 1month, and I have 0 options in my city because of the demographic situation.

 

[Plinco]

It's all in your mentality. When you're sufficiently self-assured you won't feel the need to compromise with anyone unless there's some structural reason for it. I just recently rejected a 6/10 30 yo woman because she's not enough of my type.

Go outside and talk to a lot of people and give yourself plenty of options. You do that and you'll forget about this girl.

 

[AntoniousIV]

It's all in your mentality. When you're sufficiently self-assured you won't feel the need to compromise with anyone unless there's some structural reason for it. I just recently rejected a 6/10 30 yo woman because she's not enough of my type.

Go outside and talk to a lot of people and give yourself plenty of options. You do that and you'll forget about this girl.

I'm definetly gonna do this but not now, instead I will when I go to college in 1month. The city there is big and there's a lot of ppl my age. I can't in my city because my demographic is the native demographic but sadly the minority, and the majority is racist agaisnt my demographic. Most of my demographic have moved out of the city, so girls are kinda scarce. Not just a scarcity mentality, but real scarcity.