Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Wanna haver higher value now? (almost useless thread)

JdelaSilviera

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Leave internet RIGHT NOW and do something useful ( go read, do some jogging, drink a coffee at the sun etc), as I´m going to do. Visit sosuave once a week and that´s it.

People with higher value are busy and don´t spend much time online. As I´ve read here, most super hot high value chicks don´t have facebook, or my space.

Do you think James Bond (gotta love him) would be online now?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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JdelaSilviera said:
As I´ve read here, most super hot high value chicks don´t have facebook, or my space.
That's very wrong.

All normal girls are addicts. Only the ugly ones with more brains than beauty dont spend all day on facebook.

Check yourself before you wreck yourself, making threads.
 

The Experience

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Ease said:
That's very wrong.

All normal girls are addicts. Only the ugly ones with more brains than beauty dont spend all day on facebook.

Check yourself before you wreck yourself, making threads.
Actually he is somewhat right and there is no such thing as a 'normal' girl.

What he's trying to say is don't over read everything and put what you've read to use and get out there.
 

JdelaSilviera

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Ease said:
That's very wrong.

All normal girls are addicts. Only the ugly ones with more brains than beauty dont spend all day on facebook.

Check yourself before you wreck yourself, making threads.
That´s the point, I do. And that´s why when I´m on date I have always something to talk about, and interesting things to say, because I´m busy!

I was mentioning higher value girls, not "normal" girls.
 

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Being on the internet all the time is fine. Just don't tell that to the women, so you "have higher value".
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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teacha

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useless thread.
 

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I think this is a very important thing to realize. It has taken me literally YEARS to finally come to terms with the fact that spending the evening playing World of Warcraft and watching internet porn doesn't make me particularly appealing to quality women.

And the whole facebook/myspace deal isn't necessarily good or bad. Its good because you are networking with people you wouldn't normally associate with (and its always good to have some doors open), but when you spend all day on facebook trying to prove you have a life, then its actually working against you.
 

2crudedudes

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Vitanoid said:
Being on the internet all the time is fine. Just don't tell that to the women, so you "have higher value".
I used to think this way. Its only been in this past month that I'm realizing that this is not true. Nobody cares that you know everything about rock climbing from reading about it on the internet if you never actually go rock climbing.
 

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Haha, all hot girls are facebook addicts. The hotter, the more addicted.
 

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Another words, it takes action to add value to oneself.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Shivastorm_88

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JdelaSilviera said:
Leave internet RIGHT NOW and do something useful ( go read, do some jogging, drink a coffee at the sun etc), as I´m going to do. Visit sosuave once a week and that´s it.

People with higher value are busy and don´t spend much time online. As I´ve read here, most super hot high value chicks don´t have facebook, or my space.

Do you think James Bond (gotta love him) would be online now?
Amen to that

For example today, I had nothing to do so I went hiking all day, and now I'm just relaxing before I go to celebrate a national holiday!
 
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