"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Wanna haver higher value now? (almost useless thread)

JdelaSilviera

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Leave internet RIGHT NOW and do something useful ( go read, do some jogging, drink a coffee at the sun etc), as I´m going to do. Visit sosuave once a week and that´s it.

People with higher value are busy and don´t spend much time online. As I´ve read here, most super hot high value chicks don´t have facebook, or my space.

Do you think James Bond (gotta love him) would be online now?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Ease

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JdelaSilviera said:
As I´ve read here, most super hot high value chicks don´t have facebook, or my space.
That's very wrong.

All normal girls are addicts. Only the ugly ones with more brains than beauty dont spend all day on facebook.

Check yourself before you wreck yourself, making threads.
 

The Experience

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Ease said:
That's very wrong.

All normal girls are addicts. Only the ugly ones with more brains than beauty dont spend all day on facebook.

Check yourself before you wreck yourself, making threads.
Actually he is somewhat right and there is no such thing as a 'normal' girl.

What he's trying to say is don't over read everything and put what you've read to use and get out there.
 

JdelaSilviera

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Ease said:
That's very wrong.

All normal girls are addicts. Only the ugly ones with more brains than beauty dont spend all day on facebook.

Check yourself before you wreck yourself, making threads.
That´s the point, I do. And that´s why when I´m on date I have always something to talk about, and interesting things to say, because I´m busy!

I was mentioning higher value girls, not "normal" girls.
 

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Being on the internet all the time is fine. Just don't tell that to the women, so you "have higher value".
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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teacha

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useless thread.
 

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I think this is a very important thing to realize. It has taken me literally YEARS to finally come to terms with the fact that spending the evening playing World of Warcraft and watching internet porn doesn't make me particularly appealing to quality women.

And the whole facebook/myspace deal isn't necessarily good or bad. Its good because you are networking with people you wouldn't normally associate with (and its always good to have some doors open), but when you spend all day on facebook trying to prove you have a life, then its actually working against you.
 

2crudedudes

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Vitanoid said:
Being on the internet all the time is fine. Just don't tell that to the women, so you "have higher value".
I used to think this way. Its only been in this past month that I'm realizing that this is not true. Nobody cares that you know everything about rock climbing from reading about it on the internet if you never actually go rock climbing.
 

Ease

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Haha, all hot girls are facebook addicts. The hotter, the more addicted.
 

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Another words, it takes action to add value to oneself.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Shivastorm_88

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JdelaSilviera said:
Leave internet RIGHT NOW and do something useful ( go read, do some jogging, drink a coffee at the sun etc), as I´m going to do. Visit sosuave once a week and that´s it.

People with higher value are busy and don´t spend much time online. As I´ve read here, most super hot high value chicks don´t have facebook, or my space.

Do you think James Bond (gotta love him) would be online now?
Amen to that

For example today, I had nothing to do so I went hiking all day, and now I'm just relaxing before I go to celebrate a national holiday!
 
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