"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Wanna bag a *****?

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Haha, well..I started talking to this girl and now I realise shes a complete and utter *****. She blows hot, then goes completely cold....lovey one minute, icy the next. And i realise...its kind of a turn on.

So i just wanna bag her anyway, I dont want any "move on" Advice, this is just a bit of fun, I wanna add a little imaginary trophy in my head that I managed to get the most stubborn girl I know.

Any advice?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Two terms for you: Possible BPD and Push/Pull.

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vatoloco said:
Two terms for you: Possible BPD and Push/Pull.

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If she's BPD, they don't know each other very well and she's already hot and cold, he is not going to have her. Ever. A BPD girl is all over you when she wants you. Push/pull in BPD relationships is a process that is spread out in time and the push pull routine goes faster and faster as it progresses to the end.
 
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um ,whats a bpd haha? noob i know, couldnt find it in any acronym dictionarys either
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Follow your gut, not your conditioning. Be your animal self, not the one that wants be nice and take her on dates and sh!t. Whenever you have a hard decision, think, What Would a Pimp/Player Do? Honestly, do that. You gotta be strong with those types, any sign of weakness and she will take you to the cleaners. She will try to be super nice to get you to be super nice, but don't play that game. Don't be a disrespectful d1ckhead, but don't take any sh!t from her either.

Also, when she pisses you off, don't tell her your gonna do anything, just do it and tell her laterz.

Note, this is just how you handle bidges.
 
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Dekg140 said:
um ,whats a bpd haha? noob i know, couldnt find it in any acronym dictionarys either
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You write like you're 4 years old. I can believe you when you say that you can't find a dictionary. Please have some respect for the people you want to read this. If you want serious replies then please write so we can read it easy.

It could be BPD, but it could also be bipolar disorder. First she's awesome and energetic, then she's depressed and moody. Bipolar. There's also a long ass thread on BPD (Borderline Personality Disorder) in the archives. It's full of interesting stories and very informative.
 
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Alle_Gory said:
You write like you're 4 years old.
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im 22, but I can see where youre coming from. Apologies to anyone if I came across as an inexperienced high school kid or something.

So basically, just be as *****y to her as she is to me?
 
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