"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Wanna bag a *****?

Dekg140

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Haha, well..I started talking to this girl and now I realise shes a complete and utter *****. She blows hot, then goes completely cold....lovey one minute, icy the next. And i realise...its kind of a turn on.

So i just wanna bag her anyway, I dont want any "move on" Advice, this is just a bit of fun, I wanna add a little imaginary trophy in my head that I managed to get the most stubborn girl I know.

Any advice?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Two terms for you: Possible BPD and Push/Pull.

;)
 

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vatoloco said:
Two terms for you: Possible BPD and Push/Pull.

;)
If she's BPD, they don't know each other very well and she's already hot and cold, he is not going to have her. Ever. A BPD girl is all over you when she wants you. Push/pull in BPD relationships is a process that is spread out in time and the push pull routine goes faster and faster as it progresses to the end.
 

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um ,whats a bpd haha? noob i know, couldnt find it in any acronym dictionarys either
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Follow your gut, not your conditioning. Be your animal self, not the one that wants be nice and take her on dates and sh!t. Whenever you have a hard decision, think, What Would a Pimp/Player Do? Honestly, do that. You gotta be strong with those types, any sign of weakness and she will take you to the cleaners. She will try to be super nice to get you to be super nice, but don't play that game. Don't be a disrespectful d1ckhead, but don't take any sh!t from her either.

Also, when she pisses you off, don't tell her your gonna do anything, just do it and tell her laterz.

Note, this is just how you handle bidges.
 

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Dekg140 said:
um ,whats a bpd haha? noob i know, couldnt find it in any acronym dictionarys either
You write like you're 4 years old. I can believe you when you say that you can't find a dictionary. Please have some respect for the people you want to read this. If you want serious replies then please write so we can read it easy.

It could be BPD, but it could also be bipolar disorder. First she's awesome and energetic, then she's depressed and moody. Bipolar. There's also a long ass thread on BPD (Borderline Personality Disorder) in the archives. It's full of interesting stories and very informative.
 

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Alle_Gory said:
You write like you're 4 years old.
im 22, but I can see where youre coming from. Apologies to anyone if I came across as an inexperienced high school kid or something.

So basically, just be as *****y to her as she is to me?
 
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