"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Wanking before working out

Flabbergasped?

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I know that orgasm lowers your testosterone levels. Would that affect a workout if you beat off too close to lifting?

I just rubbed one out and I'm going to the gym in like 10 minutes.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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AKA FLEX

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Jerking off KILLS my workout, or my motivation to do just about anything. There's a reason us men are notorious for conking out after blowing a load in a girl. Save the wanking for when you get done and do it to reward yourself for a hard, heavy workout.
 

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Masturbating does not lower testosterone and neither does sex. That is just a huge myth.

A boxer, Chris Byrd, had his testosterone levels checked after sex, and they were actually slightly higher after sex.
 

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Do not wank before a workout, and do not wank too soon after a workout.
 

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Depends on what you call a workout...a study on marathon runners found that their performance was generally better if they had sex the night before the marathon :woo:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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There's no right or wrong answer.

If rubbing one out alows you focus more when you hit the weights then i say spank away! If on the other hand you aren't as intense after blowing a load then refrain until after you've hit the gym.


The groggyness wears off quickly if you don't give in and sleep so that's not a factor and like they said, testosterone won't be effected.
 

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ryannath said:
Masturbating does not lower testosterone and neither does sex. That is just a huge myth.

A boxer, Chris Byrd, had his testosterone levels checked after sex, and they were actually slightly higher after sex.
Exactly what i was going to say.
 
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