"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Wanking before working out

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I know that orgasm lowers your testosterone levels. Would that affect a workout if you beat off too close to lifting?

I just rubbed one out and I'm going to the gym in like 10 minutes.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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AKA FLEX

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Jerking off KILLS my workout, or my motivation to do just about anything. There's a reason us men are notorious for conking out after blowing a load in a girl. Save the wanking for when you get done and do it to reward yourself for a hard, heavy workout.
 

ryannath

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Masturbating does not lower testosterone and neither does sex. That is just a huge myth.

A boxer, Chris Byrd, had his testosterone levels checked after sex, and they were actually slightly higher after sex.
 

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Do not wank before a workout, and do not wank too soon after a workout.
 

mikeyb

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Depends on what you call a workout...a study on marathon runners found that their performance was generally better if they had sex the night before the marathon :woo:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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There's no right or wrong answer.

If rubbing one out alows you focus more when you hit the weights then i say spank away! If on the other hand you aren't as intense after blowing a load then refrain until after you've hit the gym.


The groggyness wears off quickly if you don't give in and sleep so that's not a factor and like they said, testosterone won't be effected.
 

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ryannath said:
Masturbating does not lower testosterone and neither does sex. That is just a huge myth.

A boxer, Chris Byrd, had his testosterone levels checked after sex, and they were actually slightly higher after sex.
Exactly what i was going to say.
 
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