"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Walking through an open door

Dimehair

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I'm 17 and a junior in high school. Whether or not girls like me is not my problem. I can usually pick up the signs (smile-stare, stare, quick 'hi' and turn around). But for some reason, I can't take it anywhere past that. "She'll be there tomorrow," I'll think when I'm in a good mood. Or, when I'm depressed, "It's not like I know what to do anyway (where to take her, how to ask)." Does anyone else have this problem?

BTW, the only good date I can think of is bowling (but I'm a terrible bowler- 50's). Are there any other good ideas?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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TheBucketOfTruth

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Dimehair said:
BTW, the only good date I can think of is bowling (but I'm a terrible bowler- 50's). Are there any other good ideas?
Mini golf is usually cheap and easy, especially popular if you're younger. Are there any cool spots near you that you can check out? I took this girl to a big waterfall right by here and went on a hike. Besides gas, the whole thing was free and beats the hell out of dinner and a movie.
 

It's-Me

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Dimehair said:
I'm 17 and a junior in high school. Whether or not girls like me is not my problem. I can usually pick up the signs (smile-stare, stare, quick 'hi' and turn around). But for some reason, I can't take it anywhere past that. "She'll be there tomorrow," I'll think when I'm in a good mood. Or, when I'm depressed, "It's not like I know what to do anyway (where to take her, how to ask)." Does anyone else have this problem?

BTW, the only good date I can think of is bowling (but I'm a terrible bowler- 50's). Are there any other good ideas?
I'm in the same situation, and it's winter here.

I can either go to the mall, movies (girls are tired of that sh1t I guess - not really a good first date), ice skating (if she can skate), that's about it...
 

Huffman

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We had that Date Idea thread some time ago... however the search function doesn't give any good results :(
 

lalahaha

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take her ice skating even if she can't skate!! you just help her up every time she falls ;)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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