“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Walking through an open door

Dimehair

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I'm 17 and a junior in high school. Whether or not girls like me is not my problem. I can usually pick up the signs (smile-stare, stare, quick 'hi' and turn around). But for some reason, I can't take it anywhere past that. "She'll be there tomorrow," I'll think when I'm in a good mood. Or, when I'm depressed, "It's not like I know what to do anyway (where to take her, how to ask)." Does anyone else have this problem?

BTW, the only good date I can think of is bowling (but I'm a terrible bowler- 50's). Are there any other good ideas?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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TheBucketOfTruth

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Dimehair said:
BTW, the only good date I can think of is bowling (but I'm a terrible bowler- 50's). Are there any other good ideas?
Mini golf is usually cheap and easy, especially popular if you're younger. Are there any cool spots near you that you can check out? I took this girl to a big waterfall right by here and went on a hike. Besides gas, the whole thing was free and beats the hell out of dinner and a movie.
 

It's-Me

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Dimehair said:
I'm 17 and a junior in high school. Whether or not girls like me is not my problem. I can usually pick up the signs (smile-stare, stare, quick 'hi' and turn around). But for some reason, I can't take it anywhere past that. "She'll be there tomorrow," I'll think when I'm in a good mood. Or, when I'm depressed, "It's not like I know what to do anyway (where to take her, how to ask)." Does anyone else have this problem?

BTW, the only good date I can think of is bowling (but I'm a terrible bowler- 50's). Are there any other good ideas?
I'm in the same situation, and it's winter here.

I can either go to the mall, movies (girls are tired of that sh1t I guess - not really a good first date), ice skating (if she can skate), that's about it...
 

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We had that Date Idea thread some time ago... however the search function doesn't give any good results :(
 

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take her ice skating even if she can't skate!! you just help her up every time she falls ;)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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