"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Walking like a HE-MAN

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So my buddy tells me the other day that it looks like I'm walking around pretending I'm a he-man lately. He imitated the way I look in the mirror and I could see what he was talking about.

It seems my posture has appeared to change since I've put some bulk on my traps and it makes me look like I'm constantly posing for a bodybuilding competition or something. I guess that's a good thing...

Anyone else have a similar experience?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Its funny you post this because I noticed the same thing recently. Ive been concentrating on my lower body/glutes for a few weeks now and have noticed the gait of my walk is different.

I guess it makes sense, the muscles are more toned so they force you to walk with more posture, instead of them being flabby so that you are more apt to have a lazy posture.

Arnold even had to tone down his workout so he could weild a sword properly in the Conan movie.
 

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My friends think I walk to look big, but it's honestly just my walk.

Then I turn around and see scrawny guys suck in air and stick their chest out like they have something.

So just do what's natural. If you try to be something you're not, people will pick up on it in an instant. Don't hold your arms out like you have big lats, don't stick your chest out, don't flex your traps. People notice and don't like it.
 

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Originally posted by Soshyopathe:
Don't hold your arms out like you have big lats, don't stick your chest out, don't flex your traps. People notice and don't like it.
Sheesh, I was getting worried about that too. My shoulders are wide and my lats ARE big and it is starting to feel weird cause my arms don't fall to my side. It's good cause right now I'm wearing a size 36 pants. The wide upper body helps hide the excess bodyfat, if you know what I mean.

I try to maintain good posture but since I started bulking back up it looks like I'm trying to put on a show everywhere I go.

Oh well, I guess it comes with the territory.
 

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dude,

this has to got to be one of the "give myself props" thread ever on this board. I mean if you looked like Ronnie Coleman or Jay Cutler I would understand this thread.

But you don't even crack 200, and I'm willing to bet money all that new "mass" you put on with the Mag-10 is WATER. Reality check, dude. If you were only eating 2900 cals how did you put on the muscle? What, did it come out of thin air?

So here's the diagnosis. It's all in your head. Dennis James and Franco Columbu have/had big lats. I doubt any of you jokers do.

You are suffering from " Inflated Lat (ego) Syndrome".... get over it.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Yeah kind of have to agree with diesel on the 14lbs in 6 weeks. That have to be str8up b.s.

And if you did pull that off, I'd say 5-6 pounds could possibly be muscle.

[This message has been edited by 2N Turbo (edited 11-17-2002).]
 

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Originally posted by DIESEL:
dude,

this has to got to be one of the "give myself props" thread ever on this board. I mean if you looked like Ronnie Coleman or Jay Cutler I would understand this thread.
Haha, this is funny cause

1. If I were looking to show off I certainly wouldn't be doing it over the internet.
2. If I were on here looking for a pat on the back wouldn't it be a little more constructive to cheer me on rather than criticise?

Don't worry. I'm a big boy, so no offense taken.

Fact: I HAVE put on muscle. I have no way to know how much cause I didn't measure. Your guess is as good as mine. People swear I've lost weight when I actually gained it.

Fact: The biggest change I (and others) have noticed is in my shoulders.

I have naturally wide shoulders, big arms, and big lats (when I say big I mean bigger than average) that give me a slightly agressive stance naturally. Now that the muscles are developing it accentuates my posture and makes it look like I'm trying to show off. That's all I'm saying.
 

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when you start to get complacent, that's when you start to get soft.

D
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Since I started boxing and sword sparring I've noticed I'm a bit more balanced in my walking. It has something to do with the footwork training I'm sure. Its not too hard to see how other training can affect ones posture and walk. I heard a few days ago on the news, that police were going to start identifiying people by their walking so it is possible there is something to this. According to what I remember about it, the report said something to the affect that a study revealed that no two people walked exactly the same way.
 
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