"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Walking like a HE-MAN

STR8UP

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So my buddy tells me the other day that it looks like I'm walking around pretending I'm a he-man lately. He imitated the way I look in the mirror and I could see what he was talking about.

It seems my posture has appeared to change since I've put some bulk on my traps and it makes me look like I'm constantly posing for a bodybuilding competition or something. I guess that's a good thing...

Anyone else have a similar experience?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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xyzzy

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Its funny you post this because I noticed the same thing recently. Ive been concentrating on my lower body/glutes for a few weeks now and have noticed the gait of my walk is different.

I guess it makes sense, the muscles are more toned so they force you to walk with more posture, instead of them being flabby so that you are more apt to have a lazy posture.

Arnold even had to tone down his workout so he could weild a sword properly in the Conan movie.
 

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My friends think I walk to look big, but it's honestly just my walk.

Then I turn around and see scrawny guys suck in air and stick their chest out like they have something.

So just do what's natural. If you try to be something you're not, people will pick up on it in an instant. Don't hold your arms out like you have big lats, don't stick your chest out, don't flex your traps. People notice and don't like it.
 

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Originally posted by Soshyopathe:
Don't hold your arms out like you have big lats, don't stick your chest out, don't flex your traps. People notice and don't like it.
Sheesh, I was getting worried about that too. My shoulders are wide and my lats ARE big and it is starting to feel weird cause my arms don't fall to my side. It's good cause right now I'm wearing a size 36 pants. The wide upper body helps hide the excess bodyfat, if you know what I mean.

I try to maintain good posture but since I started bulking back up it looks like I'm trying to put on a show everywhere I go.

Oh well, I guess it comes with the territory.
 

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dude,

this has to got to be one of the "give myself props" thread ever on this board. I mean if you looked like Ronnie Coleman or Jay Cutler I would understand this thread.

But you don't even crack 200, and I'm willing to bet money all that new "mass" you put on with the Mag-10 is WATER. Reality check, dude. If you were only eating 2900 cals how did you put on the muscle? What, did it come out of thin air?

So here's the diagnosis. It's all in your head. Dennis James and Franco Columbu have/had big lats. I doubt any of you jokers do.

You are suffering from " Inflated Lat (ego) Syndrome".... get over it.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Yeah kind of have to agree with diesel on the 14lbs in 6 weeks. That have to be str8up b.s.

And if you did pull that off, I'd say 5-6 pounds could possibly be muscle.

[This message has been edited by 2N Turbo (edited 11-17-2002).]
 

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Originally posted by DIESEL:
dude,

this has to got to be one of the "give myself props" thread ever on this board. I mean if you looked like Ronnie Coleman or Jay Cutler I would understand this thread.
Haha, this is funny cause

1. If I were looking to show off I certainly wouldn't be doing it over the internet.
2. If I were on here looking for a pat on the back wouldn't it be a little more constructive to cheer me on rather than criticise?

Don't worry. I'm a big boy, so no offense taken.

Fact: I HAVE put on muscle. I have no way to know how much cause I didn't measure. Your guess is as good as mine. People swear I've lost weight when I actually gained it.

Fact: The biggest change I (and others) have noticed is in my shoulders.

I have naturally wide shoulders, big arms, and big lats (when I say big I mean bigger than average) that give me a slightly agressive stance naturally. Now that the muscles are developing it accentuates my posture and makes it look like I'm trying to show off. That's all I'm saying.
 

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when you start to get complacent, that's when you start to get soft.

D
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Since I started boxing and sword sparring I've noticed I'm a bit more balanced in my walking. It has something to do with the footwork training I'm sure. Its not too hard to see how other training can affect ones posture and walk. I heard a few days ago on the news, that police were going to start identifiying people by their walking so it is possible there is something to this. According to what I remember about it, the report said something to the affect that a study revealed that no two people walked exactly the same way.
 
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