"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Walking away

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Themanthatcan

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This girl is a Don Juanita.Swear.I got all the way to kissing her.Then went AFC w/ the "i love you" stuff.We fought, and decided to get out of eachothers way.Then I found this site and she's back.I'm being a lot more ****y.I'm not being so easily gotten.I'm going back and forth between the line of sensitivity and being unattainable.(She says I need to cool down on the sarcasm though).Anyway.Point is: She is ALWAYS being the first to walk away.I tried tonight.3 times.1 time she brought me back. the other 2 i came back after saying something.Anyway.The night went on.Right at the point were I was like :when is the best oppurtunity to kiss her again?:,She says she has to go.And I act like a sad puppy.Is there a point that I should tell myself to walk away?When?I don't want to leave too early,or before she feels excited or happy.But then If I wait too long she Don Juanita's me and leaves at the highpoint.As a man, I know I should end it.How would you guys deal w/ a Don Juanita?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Mr_knowit_all

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What exactly are you asking? She tells you you need to "cool it on the sarcasm"? Dude, you're an AFC, then you come on here asking what we think?

I think you quit kissing her ass and act like a man.
 
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