Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Walking away

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Themanthatcan

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This girl is a Don Juanita.Swear.I got all the way to kissing her.Then went AFC w/ the "i love you" stuff.We fought, and decided to get out of eachothers way.Then I found this site and she's back.I'm being a lot more ****y.I'm not being so easily gotten.I'm going back and forth between the line of sensitivity and being unattainable.(She says I need to cool down on the sarcasm though).Anyway.Point is: She is ALWAYS being the first to walk away.I tried tonight.3 times.1 time she brought me back. the other 2 i came back after saying something.Anyway.The night went on.Right at the point were I was like :when is the best oppurtunity to kiss her again?:,She says she has to go.And I act like a sad puppy.Is there a point that I should tell myself to walk away?When?I don't want to leave too early,or before she feels excited or happy.But then If I wait too long she Don Juanita's me and leaves at the highpoint.As a man, I know I should end it.How would you guys deal w/ a Don Juanita?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Mr_knowit_all

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What exactly are you asking? She tells you you need to "cool it on the sarcasm"? Dude, you're an AFC, then you come on here asking what we think?

I think you quit kissing her ass and act like a man.
 
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