"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Walking away

Themanthatcan

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This girl is a Don Juanita.Swear.I got all the way to kissing her.Then went AFC w/ the "i love you" stuff.We fought, and decided to get out of eachothers way.Then I found this site and she's back.I'm being a lot more ****y.I'm not being so easily gotten.I'm going back and forth between the line of sensitivity and being unattainable.(She says I need to cool down on the sarcasm though).Anyway.Point is: She is ALWAYS being the first to walk away.I tried tonight.3 times.1 time she brought me back. the other 2 i came back after saying something.Anyway.The night went on.Right at the point were I was like :when is the best oppurtunity to kiss her again?:,She says she has to go.And I act like a sad puppy.Is there a point that I should tell myself to walk away?When?I don't want to leave too early,or before she feels excited or happy.But then If I wait too long she Don Juanita's me and leaves at the highpoint.As a man, I know I should end it.How would you guys deal w/ a Don Juanita?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Mr_knowit_all

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What exactly are you asking? She tells you you need to "cool it on the sarcasm"? Dude, you're an AFC, then you come on here asking what we think?

I think you quit kissing her ass and act like a man.
 
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