You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
so what are you implying here?A 6'3 comes black guy in at the exact same time as a 5'4 Korean girl and she is that friendly with him no hesitation?
Did he follow her from the train/street into the coffee shop?
Possibly. They met on the train or something and she flirted him and said "I'm meeting this guy, come and see what he is about."
She didn't like my look or age and the black saved her?
Possibly.
Is she that friendly with everyone?
Possibly. This girl was laughing and giving this 6'4 black guy her name and high fives. But I'm thinking, if I'm at Starbucks and a pretty girl comes and squeezes next to me and flirts that hard, I would be like "What the hell are you doing?"
What is the deal and what would you have done?
do you happen to live in the hood? no? then you won't see many pimps or crackwh0resIs he her pimp?
Possibly. They acted like they didn't know each other at all at all is a perfect cover. Young Asian girl dressed like that, it was kind of getting dark outside and she confirmed the coffee shop address twice. Maybe I've been watching too many movies but it was too much coincidence not to be set up.
she didn't recognize OP on sight so it's possible that she thought the tall black man could've been her dateIt's definitely a mark against her. She should have said something to the effect of "thank you, but I'm waiting for a date". She has crap boundaries.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.