Well, im taking summer classes to get ahead in school and theres this girl who ive known throughout the past few years who is in my class. Shes a down right 10. Anyways, everyday I walk in I do the little smile walk by and she gives me a big smile too and everything. Well I talked to her alot one day and since then i havent to her for 2 weeks. She sits diagnolly across from me all the way across the classroom. Well, I was takin notes and i look up and shes staring right at me and then she smiles and turns right around. Then I look up again and shes smiling right at me and kind of laughs to herself and then gives me this sexy look and turns around. So, after class I took a piece of paper and wrote "parking ticket" on it and wrote my number inside of it and put it on her windshield. Dont worry it wont fall off. One problem is she has a boyfriend. Another is we dont go to the same school but we live close. Well what should i do?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Walk me through please...
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
dannowillbookem
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well obviously shes hitting on u and she has a boyfriend? wait it out man. they'll fall apart and you'll move in.
first off all u should grow some cohonas...
leaving ur number on the wiendshieldwiper, come on....
u should have just straight forward asked her out after that class was over, if u truly say that she sits diagonally from you and turns around to look at you three times and give u smiles and sexy looks in one class , then just walk up to her and ask her out after the class was over... but now she may think ur afc and never call ya, but who knows miracles do happen once in a mellenium....
dont know what u can do now , read the bootcamp to get some ideas, or the bible read this hole site and ull have a really good idea of what to do....
leaving ur number on the wiendshieldwiper, come on....
u should have just straight forward asked her out after that class was over, if u truly say that she sits diagonally from you and turns around to look at you three times and give u smiles and sexy looks in one class , then just walk up to her and ask her out after the class was over... but now she may think ur afc and never call ya, but who knows miracles do happen once in a mellenium....
dont know what u can do now , read the bootcamp to get some ideas, or the bible read this hole site and ull have a really good idea of what to do....
it doesn't matter that he left his number on her wind shield. big deal. Not every move has to be by the bible and I might have to try that one. lol
She probaly just wants a quick hook up or she is a attention *****. You decide.
She probaly just wants a quick hook up or she is a attention *****. You decide.
dannowillbookem
Master Don Juan
i agree. it was witty and she probably was never given a number that way.Originally posted by 08aisaac
it doesn't matter that he left his number on her wind shield. big deal. Not every move has to be by the bible and I might have to try that one. lol
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
dannowillbookem
Master Don Juan
down with Morphiex!!! lol
biker_gixxer
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it doesn't matter that he left his number on her wind shield. big deal
Yeah, you're right. Maybe next time he can write 'hi, i'm to much of a wuss to approach you in person or at least hand you a note personally, so I'll just give you my number this way 'hoping' you will find it as witty as I do'.
Come on Morphiex, he's being creative to ladies that should have some sort of allure.
This isn't creative, this is AFC.
Im glad you guys liked that one
I really enjoyed it, I haven't laughed that hard in a while.
Good luck, you'll need it.
Yeah, you're right. Maybe next time he can write 'hi, i'm to much of a wuss to approach you in person or at least hand you a note personally, so I'll just give you my number this way 'hoping' you will find it as witty as I do'.
Come on Morphiex, he's being creative to ladies that should have some sort of allure.
This isn't creative, this is AFC.
Im glad you guys liked that one
I really enjoyed it, I haven't laughed that hard in a while.
Good luck, you'll need it.
biker_gixxer
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im not afc...i may only have 6 posts or whatever but im not stupid
Good job not letting the post upset you, lol.
Good job not letting the post upset you, lol.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Who is this tool?Originally posted by biker_gixxer
Good luck, you'll need it.
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It doesn't matter what everybody thinks bro. Everyone on this board is still AFC from time to time, don't let them fool ya. We've all slipped and gotten back up.Originally posted by MiKe23
hey i wasnt mad i just dont want everybody to think im afc material. thats why i put lets get one thing clear right before that statement you quoted...but i didnt come hear to argue i came here to get advice
I know I can come across a bit arsh sometimes, but it's just my way of 'helping', lol. You need thick skin around here, I'm sure you are picking up on that already.
cya...
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oooooh, scary.Originally posted by LikRetsam
Who is this tool?
It's amazing how everyone always seems to miss the point of these forums. We've supposed to be here as a brotherhood helping each other out, when all you guys are doing is arguing about st00pid things.
Here's my two cents: The note was a nice touch, but you could have done better. Getting her number lets her wonder when you're going to call her. By giving her yours, YOU'RE the one waiting for the call. From what you said, you guys have had lots of eye contact and some good positive body language from her. Since she doesn't go to school with you, you need to work fast, get that number, and set up a date in the future. If a girl willingly flirts with you AND she has a bf, more than likely, things between them are going sour fast. Good luck
Here's my two cents: The note was a nice touch, but you could have done better. Getting her number lets her wonder when you're going to call her. By giving her yours, YOU'RE the one waiting for the call. From what you said, you guys have had lots of eye contact and some good positive body language from her. Since she doesn't go to school with you, you need to work fast, get that number, and set up a date in the future. If a girl willingly flirts with you AND she has a bf, more than likely, things between them are going sour fast. Good luck
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.