Well, im taking summer classes to get ahead in school and theres this girl who ive known throughout the past few years who is in my class. Shes a down right 10. Anyways, everyday I walk in I do the little smile walk by and she gives me a big smile too and everything. Well I talked to her alot one day and since then i havent to her for 2 weeks. She sits diagnolly across from me all the way across the classroom. Well, I was takin notes and i look up and shes staring right at me and then she smiles and turns right around. Then I look up again and shes smiling right at me and kind of laughs to herself and then gives me this sexy look and turns around. So, after class I took a piece of paper and wrote "parking ticket" on it and wrote my number inside of it and put it on her windshield. Dont worry it wont fall off. One problem is she has a boyfriend. Another is we dont go to the same school but we live close. Well what should i do?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Walk me through please...
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
dannowillbookem
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well obviously shes hitting on u and she has a boyfriend? wait it out man. they'll fall apart and you'll move in.
first off all u should grow some cohonas...
leaving ur number on the wiendshieldwiper, come on....
u should have just straight forward asked her out after that class was over, if u truly say that she sits diagonally from you and turns around to look at you three times and give u smiles and sexy looks in one class , then just walk up to her and ask her out after the class was over... but now she may think ur afc and never call ya, but who knows miracles do happen once in a mellenium....
dont know what u can do now , read the bootcamp to get some ideas, or the bible read this hole site and ull have a really good idea of what to do....
leaving ur number on the wiendshieldwiper, come on....
u should have just straight forward asked her out after that class was over, if u truly say that she sits diagonally from you and turns around to look at you three times and give u smiles and sexy looks in one class , then just walk up to her and ask her out after the class was over... but now she may think ur afc and never call ya, but who knows miracles do happen once in a mellenium....
dont know what u can do now , read the bootcamp to get some ideas, or the bible read this hole site and ull have a really good idea of what to do....
it doesn't matter that he left his number on her wind shield. big deal. Not every move has to be by the bible and I might have to try that one. lol
She probaly just wants a quick hook up or she is a attention *****. You decide.
She probaly just wants a quick hook up or she is a attention *****. You decide.
dannowillbookem
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i agree. it was witty and she probably was never given a number that way.Originally posted by 08aisaac
it doesn't matter that he left his number on her wind shield. big deal. Not every move has to be by the bible and I might have to try that one. lol
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
dannowillbookem
Master Don Juan
down with Morphiex!!! lol
biker_gixxer
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it doesn't matter that he left his number on her wind shield. big deal
Yeah, you're right. Maybe next time he can write 'hi, i'm to much of a wuss to approach you in person or at least hand you a note personally, so I'll just give you my number this way 'hoping' you will find it as witty as I do'.
Come on Morphiex, he's being creative to ladies that should have some sort of allure.
This isn't creative, this is AFC.
Im glad you guys liked that one
I really enjoyed it, I haven't laughed that hard in a while.
Good luck, you'll need it.
Yeah, you're right. Maybe next time he can write 'hi, i'm to much of a wuss to approach you in person or at least hand you a note personally, so I'll just give you my number this way 'hoping' you will find it as witty as I do'.
Come on Morphiex, he's being creative to ladies that should have some sort of allure.
This isn't creative, this is AFC.
Im glad you guys liked that one
I really enjoyed it, I haven't laughed that hard in a while.
Good luck, you'll need it.
biker_gixxer
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im not afc...i may only have 6 posts or whatever but im not stupid
Good job not letting the post upset you, lol.
Good job not letting the post upset you, lol.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Who is this tool?Originally posted by biker_gixxer
Good luck, you'll need it.
biker_gixxer
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It doesn't matter what everybody thinks bro. Everyone on this board is still AFC from time to time, don't let them fool ya. We've all slipped and gotten back up.Originally posted by MiKe23
hey i wasnt mad i just dont want everybody to think im afc material. thats why i put lets get one thing clear right before that statement you quoted...but i didnt come hear to argue i came here to get advice
I know I can come across a bit arsh sometimes, but it's just my way of 'helping', lol. You need thick skin around here, I'm sure you are picking up on that already.
cya...
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oooooh, scary.Originally posted by LikRetsam
Who is this tool?
It's amazing how everyone always seems to miss the point of these forums. We've supposed to be here as a brotherhood helping each other out, when all you guys are doing is arguing about st00pid things.
Here's my two cents: The note was a nice touch, but you could have done better. Getting her number lets her wonder when you're going to call her. By giving her yours, YOU'RE the one waiting for the call. From what you said, you guys have had lots of eye contact and some good positive body language from her. Since she doesn't go to school with you, you need to work fast, get that number, and set up a date in the future. If a girl willingly flirts with you AND she has a bf, more than likely, things between them are going sour fast. Good luck
Here's my two cents: The note was a nice touch, but you could have done better. Getting her number lets her wonder when you're going to call her. By giving her yours, YOU'RE the one waiting for the call. From what you said, you guys have had lots of eye contact and some good positive body language from her. Since she doesn't go to school with you, you need to work fast, get that number, and set up a date in the future. If a girl willingly flirts with you AND she has a bf, more than likely, things between them are going sour fast. Good luck
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.