Well, im taking summer classes to get ahead in school and theres this girl who ive known throughout the past few years who is in my class. Shes a down right 10. Anyways, everyday I walk in I do the little smile walk by and she gives me a big smile too and everything. Well I talked to her alot one day and since then i havent to her for 2 weeks. She sits diagnolly across from me all the way across the classroom. Well, I was takin notes and i look up and shes staring right at me and then she smiles and turns right around. Then I look up again and shes smiling right at me and kind of laughs to herself and then gives me this sexy look and turns around. So, after class I took a piece of paper and wrote "parking ticket" on it and wrote my number inside of it and put it on her windshield. Dont worry it wont fall off. One problem is she has a boyfriend. Another is we dont go to the same school but we live close. Well what should i do?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Walk me through please...
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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
dannowillbookem
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well obviously shes hitting on u and she has a boyfriend? wait it out man. they'll fall apart and you'll move in.
first off all u should grow some cohonas...
leaving ur number on the wiendshieldwiper, come on....
u should have just straight forward asked her out after that class was over, if u truly say that she sits diagonally from you and turns around to look at you three times and give u smiles and sexy looks in one class , then just walk up to her and ask her out after the class was over... but now she may think ur afc and never call ya, but who knows miracles do happen once in a mellenium....
dont know what u can do now , read the bootcamp to get some ideas, or the bible read this hole site and ull have a really good idea of what to do....
leaving ur number on the wiendshieldwiper, come on....
u should have just straight forward asked her out after that class was over, if u truly say that she sits diagonally from you and turns around to look at you three times and give u smiles and sexy looks in one class , then just walk up to her and ask her out after the class was over... but now she may think ur afc and never call ya, but who knows miracles do happen once in a mellenium....
dont know what u can do now , read the bootcamp to get some ideas, or the bible read this hole site and ull have a really good idea of what to do....
it doesn't matter that he left his number on her wind shield. big deal. Not every move has to be by the bible and I might have to try that one. lol
She probaly just wants a quick hook up or she is a attention *****. You decide.
She probaly just wants a quick hook up or she is a attention *****. You decide.
dannowillbookem
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i agree. it was witty and she probably was never given a number that way.Originally posted by 08aisaac
it doesn't matter that he left his number on her wind shield. big deal. Not every move has to be by the bible and I might have to try that one. lol
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You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
dannowillbookem
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down with Morphiex!!! lol
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it doesn't matter that he left his number on her wind shield. big deal
Yeah, you're right. Maybe next time he can write 'hi, i'm to much of a wuss to approach you in person or at least hand you a note personally, so I'll just give you my number this way 'hoping' you will find it as witty as I do'.
Come on Morphiex, he's being creative to ladies that should have some sort of allure.
This isn't creative, this is AFC.
Im glad you guys liked that one
I really enjoyed it, I haven't laughed that hard in a while.
Good luck, you'll need it.
Yeah, you're right. Maybe next time he can write 'hi, i'm to much of a wuss to approach you in person or at least hand you a note personally, so I'll just give you my number this way 'hoping' you will find it as witty as I do'.
Come on Morphiex, he's being creative to ladies that should have some sort of allure.
This isn't creative, this is AFC.
Im glad you guys liked that one
I really enjoyed it, I haven't laughed that hard in a while.
Good luck, you'll need it.
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im not afc...i may only have 6 posts or whatever but im not stupid
Good job not letting the post upset you, lol.
Good job not letting the post upset you, lol.
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Who is this tool?Originally posted by biker_gixxer
Good luck, you'll need it.
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It doesn't matter what everybody thinks bro. Everyone on this board is still AFC from time to time, don't let them fool ya. We've all slipped and gotten back up.Originally posted by MiKe23
hey i wasnt mad i just dont want everybody to think im afc material. thats why i put lets get one thing clear right before that statement you quoted...but i didnt come hear to argue i came here to get advice
I know I can come across a bit arsh sometimes, but it's just my way of 'helping', lol. You need thick skin around here, I'm sure you are picking up on that already.
cya...
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oooooh, scary.Originally posted by LikRetsam
Who is this tool?
It's amazing how everyone always seems to miss the point of these forums. We've supposed to be here as a brotherhood helping each other out, when all you guys are doing is arguing about st00pid things.
Here's my two cents: The note was a nice touch, but you could have done better. Getting her number lets her wonder when you're going to call her. By giving her yours, YOU'RE the one waiting for the call. From what you said, you guys have had lots of eye contact and some good positive body language from her. Since she doesn't go to school with you, you need to work fast, get that number, and set up a date in the future. If a girl willingly flirts with you AND she has a bf, more than likely, things between them are going sour fast. Good luck
Here's my two cents: The note was a nice touch, but you could have done better. Getting her number lets her wonder when you're going to call her. By giving her yours, YOU'RE the one waiting for the call. From what you said, you guys have had lots of eye contact and some good positive body language from her. Since she doesn't go to school with you, you need to work fast, get that number, and set up a date in the future. If a girl willingly flirts with you AND she has a bf, more than likely, things between them are going sour fast. Good luck
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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.