"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Walk like a Somebody

sandinista

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Hello everyone,

I read a similar technique to this one in a book & I found that it's really helped me out so i thought you guys might be interested as well.

Basically, it's this:

When you are walking anywhere or just standing around, here is something you can try to give body perfect equilibrium & that all important 'confident' look.

Imagine that there is some string attached to the top of your head, near the back (a bit like a puppet).
Now imagine that this invisible string is going up into the sky. Imagine that something is pulling on this string, to the point where it's almost lifting you off of the ground.

If you genuinely imagine that this is happening then a few things should happen to your posture.
Your back should straighten out, your head will be slightly raised, your shoulders should move back & your chest will be sticking out.

THIS is the perfect posture. It exudes confidence. I never realised how much i was slouching when i walked until i started doing this trick.

Seriously, if your posture could be better & you are trying to appear more confident & approachable then given it a go.

When you're finished on your computer tonight, the next time you are about to walk through a door, stop, imagine the string is pulling from the top of your head & you'll see a major difference.

Anyway, this has really helped me out so i hope it can do the same for you guys.
Bye!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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goundra

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My instructor deliberately walked like a sailor, and slowly, so as to not show what he was. :) But in the dojo, he moved like a tiger prowling a cage. I've been told that I "walk like John Wayne". i tell them "you have it backwards, the Duke walked like ME". :) Marion (john's real name) STUDIED how dangerous/successful men walk, and copied that style.
 
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