"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Walk like a Somebody

sandinista

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Hello everyone,

I read a similar technique to this one in a book & I found that it's really helped me out so i thought you guys might be interested as well.

Basically, it's this:

When you are walking anywhere or just standing around, here is something you can try to give body perfect equilibrium & that all important 'confident' look.

Imagine that there is some string attached to the top of your head, near the back (a bit like a puppet).
Now imagine that this invisible string is going up into the sky. Imagine that something is pulling on this string, to the point where it's almost lifting you off of the ground.

If you genuinely imagine that this is happening then a few things should happen to your posture.
Your back should straighten out, your head will be slightly raised, your shoulders should move back & your chest will be sticking out.

THIS is the perfect posture. It exudes confidence. I never realised how much i was slouching when i walked until i started doing this trick.

Seriously, if your posture could be better & you are trying to appear more confident & approachable then given it a go.

When you're finished on your computer tonight, the next time you are about to walk through a door, stop, imagine the string is pulling from the top of your head & you'll see a major difference.

Anyway, this has really helped me out so i hope it can do the same for you guys.
Bye!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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goundra

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My instructor deliberately walked like a sailor, and slowly, so as to not show what he was. :) But in the dojo, he moved like a tiger prowling a cage. I've been told that I "walk like John Wayne". i tell them "you have it backwards, the Duke walked like ME". :) Marion (john's real name) STUDIED how dangerous/successful men walk, and copied that style.
 
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