"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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walk her home after every date. good or bad?

Fela Kuti

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hi all, let me get straight to the point.

i've been dating this girl for about 2-3 months. because we don't have our own cars, so we use public transportation or walk everytime we go someplace. when the dates end, we usually part from the date place and go home individually. but a few weeks ago, she texted me that two men were trying to harass her at the street. so from then on, i always walk her to her house everytime a date ends because i don't want anything bad happen to her.

my problem is, i don't want to be her puppy dog. but i also want to make sure she got home safe everytime. so, do u think walking her home after every date is too much?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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asam

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nah man! it's quite a nice thing to do for a girl you like. i'll say keep on doing it!
 

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Just play it off,
"I guess I'll walk you home so no two men harass you."

Funny, the girl I'm with right now left my apartment and she said two guys in the parking lot tried to hit on her. What makes it more funny is the fact that if they had gotten a lil bit closer I bet they would have been able to smell my d*ck on her breath.

I'm bored at work, time to kill... So...

A bit off subject...
I bring this up for a point...
If the girl really likes you, and you are the alpha male in her environment you'll have no problem. Her subconcious will trick her mind into thinking you are being sexy/attractive when you are protecting her... An example...

Reminds me of this high school couple, the girl... everyone clearly knew was a hoe/cheat. Her boyfriend knew it too... Hell I had ****ed her a few years before and a few other guys but we were out of high school. They were at the pool and when a guy would try to talk to her, her boyfriend would jump in the water and be like "hey babe!" She told me "I love how he is so protective." If the guy wasn't the alpha male in her environment she would have thought he was being "OVER PROTECTIVE"...
 

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asam said:
nah man! it's quite a nice thing to do for a girl you like. i'll say keep on doing it!
Yeah, take care of your girl man.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Espi said:
Women want protection, but you must let her know that your services cost.

You should settle for nothing less than a sexy-erotic kiss. Say, "I can walk you home, but you have to kiss me passionately, like Gleen Close kissed Michael Douglas in Fatal Attraction."

If she says no, say, "Well, I've got to go."
sorry, but that seems alittle extreme to me. you are not her personal mafia, your her man.

your there to date her, not make her an offer she cant refuse.
 

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Women are attracted to real men who can protect them from harm. Whether they truly need it or not is irrelevent. It makes them feel like ladies and makes them look at you as a man.

Stop being paranoid about every good gesture you do and do what you feel is right. If you were just a friend, it might be different, but for a girl you are dating it's the accepted thing to do. I've walked all my girlfriends to their bus stops, train stops or have taken them home.
 

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Walking her home will not make or break the relationship. If your woman likes you and shows high interest in you then there is no problem.

You need to look at the whole picture and not focus on one stupid thing.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Fela Kuti

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great advice, guys. one thing to consider is that she's a cute little innocent girl and the road to his house can be considered dangerous for a girl like her.
 

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Fela Kuti said:
great advice, guys. one thing to consider is that she's a cute little innocent girl and the road to his house can be considered dangerous for a girl like her.
I am sure her father apperciate's that the man who is deflowering his little innocent girl is walking her home. Oh wait a minute I guess since she has been deflowered she ain't that innocent......
 

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Another side of this.. If an Alpha male thinks she can take care of herself, then your asking for a woman who is man enough to not need a man around..

I personally want a woman that is a woman. Not helpless, but always welcome to the added comfort and security a man can give. She acts like a lady and deserves to be treated like one. If she acts like a bish or demanding then she does not deserve anything.
 
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