"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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walk her home after every date. good or bad?

Fela Kuti

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hi all, let me get straight to the point.

i've been dating this girl for about 2-3 months. because we don't have our own cars, so we use public transportation or walk everytime we go someplace. when the dates end, we usually part from the date place and go home individually. but a few weeks ago, she texted me that two men were trying to harass her at the street. so from then on, i always walk her to her house everytime a date ends because i don't want anything bad happen to her.

my problem is, i don't want to be her puppy dog. but i also want to make sure she got home safe everytime. so, do u think walking her home after every date is too much?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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asam

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nah man! it's quite a nice thing to do for a girl you like. i'll say keep on doing it!
 

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Just play it off,
"I guess I'll walk you home so no two men harass you."

Funny, the girl I'm with right now left my apartment and she said two guys in the parking lot tried to hit on her. What makes it more funny is the fact that if they had gotten a lil bit closer I bet they would have been able to smell my d*ck on her breath.

I'm bored at work, time to kill... So...

A bit off subject...
I bring this up for a point...
If the girl really likes you, and you are the alpha male in her environment you'll have no problem. Her subconcious will trick her mind into thinking you are being sexy/attractive when you are protecting her... An example...

Reminds me of this high school couple, the girl... everyone clearly knew was a hoe/cheat. Her boyfriend knew it too... Hell I had ****ed her a few years before and a few other guys but we were out of high school. They were at the pool and when a guy would try to talk to her, her boyfriend would jump in the water and be like "hey babe!" She told me "I love how he is so protective." If the guy wasn't the alpha male in her environment she would have thought he was being "OVER PROTECTIVE"...
 

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asam said:
nah man! it's quite a nice thing to do for a girl you like. i'll say keep on doing it!
Yeah, take care of your girl man.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Espi said:
Women want protection, but you must let her know that your services cost.

You should settle for nothing less than a sexy-erotic kiss. Say, "I can walk you home, but you have to kiss me passionately, like Gleen Close kissed Michael Douglas in Fatal Attraction."

If she says no, say, "Well, I've got to go."
sorry, but that seems alittle extreme to me. you are not her personal mafia, your her man.

your there to date her, not make her an offer she cant refuse.
 

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Women are attracted to real men who can protect them from harm. Whether they truly need it or not is irrelevent. It makes them feel like ladies and makes them look at you as a man.

Stop being paranoid about every good gesture you do and do what you feel is right. If you were just a friend, it might be different, but for a girl you are dating it's the accepted thing to do. I've walked all my girlfriends to their bus stops, train stops or have taken them home.
 

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Walking her home will not make or break the relationship. If your woman likes you and shows high interest in you then there is no problem.

You need to look at the whole picture and not focus on one stupid thing.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Fela Kuti

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great advice, guys. one thing to consider is that she's a cute little innocent girl and the road to his house can be considered dangerous for a girl like her.
 

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Fela Kuti said:
great advice, guys. one thing to consider is that she's a cute little innocent girl and the road to his house can be considered dangerous for a girl like her.
I am sure her father apperciate's that the man who is deflowering his little innocent girl is walking her home. Oh wait a minute I guess since she has been deflowered she ain't that innocent......
 

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Another side of this.. If an Alpha male thinks she can take care of herself, then your asking for a woman who is man enough to not need a man around..

I personally want a woman that is a woman. Not helpless, but always welcome to the added comfort and security a man can give. She acts like a lady and deserves to be treated like one. If she acts like a bish or demanding then she does not deserve anything.
 
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