"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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walk her home after every date. good or bad?

Fela Kuti

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hi all, let me get straight to the point.

i've been dating this girl for about 2-3 months. because we don't have our own cars, so we use public transportation or walk everytime we go someplace. when the dates end, we usually part from the date place and go home individually. but a few weeks ago, she texted me that two men were trying to harass her at the street. so from then on, i always walk her to her house everytime a date ends because i don't want anything bad happen to her.

my problem is, i don't want to be her puppy dog. but i also want to make sure she got home safe everytime. so, do u think walking her home after every date is too much?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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asam

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nah man! it's quite a nice thing to do for a girl you like. i'll say keep on doing it!
 

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Just play it off,
"I guess I'll walk you home so no two men harass you."

Funny, the girl I'm with right now left my apartment and she said two guys in the parking lot tried to hit on her. What makes it more funny is the fact that if they had gotten a lil bit closer I bet they would have been able to smell my d*ck on her breath.

I'm bored at work, time to kill... So...

A bit off subject...
I bring this up for a point...
If the girl really likes you, and you are the alpha male in her environment you'll have no problem. Her subconcious will trick her mind into thinking you are being sexy/attractive when you are protecting her... An example...

Reminds me of this high school couple, the girl... everyone clearly knew was a hoe/cheat. Her boyfriend knew it too... Hell I had ****ed her a few years before and a few other guys but we were out of high school. They were at the pool and when a guy would try to talk to her, her boyfriend would jump in the water and be like "hey babe!" She told me "I love how he is so protective." If the guy wasn't the alpha male in her environment she would have thought he was being "OVER PROTECTIVE"...
 

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asam said:
nah man! it's quite a nice thing to do for a girl you like. i'll say keep on doing it!
Yeah, take care of your girl man.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Espi said:
Women want protection, but you must let her know that your services cost.

You should settle for nothing less than a sexy-erotic kiss. Say, "I can walk you home, but you have to kiss me passionately, like Gleen Close kissed Michael Douglas in Fatal Attraction."

If she says no, say, "Well, I've got to go."
sorry, but that seems alittle extreme to me. you are not her personal mafia, your her man.

your there to date her, not make her an offer she cant refuse.
 

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Women are attracted to real men who can protect them from harm. Whether they truly need it or not is irrelevent. It makes them feel like ladies and makes them look at you as a man.

Stop being paranoid about every good gesture you do and do what you feel is right. If you were just a friend, it might be different, but for a girl you are dating it's the accepted thing to do. I've walked all my girlfriends to their bus stops, train stops or have taken them home.
 

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Walking her home will not make or break the relationship. If your woman likes you and shows high interest in you then there is no problem.

You need to look at the whole picture and not focus on one stupid thing.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Fela Kuti

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great advice, guys. one thing to consider is that she's a cute little innocent girl and the road to his house can be considered dangerous for a girl like her.
 

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Fela Kuti said:
great advice, guys. one thing to consider is that she's a cute little innocent girl and the road to his house can be considered dangerous for a girl like her.
I am sure her father apperciate's that the man who is deflowering his little innocent girl is walking her home. Oh wait a minute I guess since she has been deflowered she ain't that innocent......
 

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Another side of this.. If an Alpha male thinks she can take care of herself, then your asking for a woman who is man enough to not need a man around..

I personally want a woman that is a woman. Not helpless, but always welcome to the added comfort and security a man can give. She acts like a lady and deserves to be treated like one. If she acts like a bish or demanding then she does not deserve anything.
 
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