"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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hey guys how every body here is my situation there is this waitress and she is a looker
well i wanted to hit on her but i thought she gets hit on at least 5 times in a night at the bar so i just never hit on her i talked to her got her a drink and when she finished work she went out of her way to find me and say that she was leaving and stupid me didn't do anything no number close because i didn't think i had a chance. so i want to see her again saturday what should i do not make a move and just stay friendly or what?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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“Hi.” (Smile)
“I know you must get hit on all the time so I don't want to do that.
Let’s just meet for coffee and get to know each other a little better.
Would you prefer to get together on Wednesday or Thursday?”
(Get phone number)

Or, something like that…
 
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yeah you guys are right i'll ask her out thanks everybody
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Espi said:
The next time you see her, flash her an adorable Alpha smile and say,

"Can I get another waitress? I really don't like the way you undress me with your eyes."
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Haha :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
This is great! I'm going to give this a try tonight.
 
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hey guys this weekend i went to see her and i just did it i talked to her and got her number but when should i call her monday or tuesday i got her number saturday night guys your so right just go to any girl and talk to them thats it if you get her number nice if not go to the next she was not worth it.
 
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