"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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hey guys how every body here is my situation there is this waitress and she is a looker
well i wanted to hit on her but i thought she gets hit on at least 5 times in a night at the bar so i just never hit on her i talked to her got her a drink and when she finished work she went out of her way to find me and say that she was leaving and stupid me didn't do anything no number close because i didn't think i had a chance. so i want to see her again saturday what should i do not make a move and just stay friendly or what?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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“Hi.” (Smile)
“I know you must get hit on all the time so I don't want to do that.
Let’s just meet for coffee and get to know each other a little better.
Would you prefer to get together on Wednesday or Thursday?”
(Get phone number)

Or, something like that…
 
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yeah you guys are right i'll ask her out thanks everybody
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Espi said:
The next time you see her, flash her an adorable Alpha smile and say,

"Can I get another waitress? I really don't like the way you undress me with your eyes."
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Haha :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
This is great! I'm going to give this a try tonight.
 
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hey guys this weekend i went to see her and i just did it i talked to her and got her number but when should i call her monday or tuesday i got her number saturday night guys your so right just go to any girl and talk to them thats it if you get her number nice if not go to the next she was not worth it.
 
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