"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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hey guys how every body here is my situation there is this waitress and she is a looker
well i wanted to hit on her but i thought she gets hit on at least 5 times in a night at the bar so i just never hit on her i talked to her got her a drink and when she finished work she went out of her way to find me and say that she was leaving and stupid me didn't do anything no number close because i didn't think i had a chance. so i want to see her again saturday what should i do not make a move and just stay friendly or what?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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“Hi.” (Smile)
“I know you must get hit on all the time so I don't want to do that.
Let’s just meet for coffee and get to know each other a little better.
Would you prefer to get together on Wednesday or Thursday?”
(Get phone number)

Or, something like that…
 
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yeah you guys are right i'll ask her out thanks everybody
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Espi said:
The next time you see her, flash her an adorable Alpha smile and say,

"Can I get another waitress? I really don't like the way you undress me with your eyes."
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Haha :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
This is great! I'm going to give this a try tonight.
 
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hey guys this weekend i went to see her and i just did it i talked to her and got her number but when should i call her monday or tuesday i got her number saturday night guys your so right just go to any girl and talk to them thats it if you get her number nice if not go to the next she was not worth it.
 
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