"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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hey guys how every body here is my situation there is this waitress and she is a looker
well i wanted to hit on her but i thought she gets hit on at least 5 times in a night at the bar so i just never hit on her i talked to her got her a drink and when she finished work she went out of her way to find me and say that she was leaving and stupid me didn't do anything no number close because i didn't think i had a chance. so i want to see her again saturday what should i do not make a move and just stay friendly or what?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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“Hi.” (Smile)
“I know you must get hit on all the time so I don't want to do that.
Let’s just meet for coffee and get to know each other a little better.
Would you prefer to get together on Wednesday or Thursday?”
(Get phone number)

Or, something like that…
 
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yeah you guys are right i'll ask her out thanks everybody
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Espi said:
The next time you see her, flash her an adorable Alpha smile and say,

"Can I get another waitress? I really don't like the way you undress me with your eyes."
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Haha :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
This is great! I'm going to give this a try tonight.
 
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hey guys this weekend i went to see her and i just did it i talked to her and got her number but when should i call her monday or tuesday i got her number saturday night guys your so right just go to any girl and talk to them thats it if you get her number nice if not go to the next she was not worth it.
 
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