Getting up and walking away without having a conversation first does little to solve the OP’s problem. The wife may very well be aware of what she’s doing, but at the same time she may just be an idiot who needs to be taught that such behaviours are unacceptable. He needs to have a conversation with her first before taking action...if, after talking to her, she chooses to do it again, then he can get up and walk away. Reacting dramatically without having a conversation first only creates unnecessary drama. Creating drama with no gain is a beta move.The only masculine response in this entire thread.
If she chooses to do it again after being told not to, then OP gains confirmation that the wife does not respect him/is a game player/BPD/ hoe, etc., and can then walk away from the relationship. At that point wife may choose to take a more critical look at her behaviours and decide to change to avoid losing husband. Ball is now in OPs court, and he changes from Beta to Alpha. Relationship either changes for the better, or OP learns from his experiences and moves on a better man.
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