I've used the art of turning a female friend into a girlfriend. It seems
> to be a success, until she tells me to call her one night. While having
> this conversation, she tells me she loves me, wants to get closer, but
> she want's to "find herself first".What does this mean? Also, she tells
> me up front that another guy has his eyes on her. She assures me if i
> wait for her it could be worth my wild. So should I wait without knowing
> 4 sure she will choose me? I've known her for about 3/4 of a year n were
> close. I don't want to lose her as a friend because
> 1. I really like this chick
> 2. but I won't b able to stand the sight of her with someone other than me.
> Lastly, how should i go about it if i wait and she doesn't choose me?
> Cut all contact perhaps?? Please help!!!
> to be a success, until she tells me to call her one night. While having
> this conversation, she tells me she loves me, wants to get closer, but
> she want's to "find herself first".What does this mean? Also, she tells
> me up front that another guy has his eyes on her. She assures me if i
> wait for her it could be worth my wild. So should I wait without knowing
> 4 sure she will choose me? I've known her for about 3/4 of a year n were
> close. I don't want to lose her as a friend because
> 1. I really like this chick
> 2. but I won't b able to stand the sight of her with someone other than me.
> Lastly, how should i go about it if i wait and she doesn't choose me?
> Cut all contact perhaps?? Please help!!!
