"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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"Wait for me"

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I've used the art of turning a female friend into a girlfriend. It seems
> to be a success, until she tells me to call her one night. While having
> this conversation, she tells me she loves me, wants to get closer, but
> she want's to "find herself first".What does this mean? Also, she tells
> me up front that another guy has his eyes on her. She assures me if i
> wait for her it could be worth my wild. So should I wait without knowing
> 4 sure she will choose me? I've known her for about 3/4 of a year n were
> close. I don't want to lose her as a friend because
> 1. I really like this chick
> 2. but I won't b able to stand the sight of her with someone other than me.
> Lastly, how should i go about it if i wait and she doesn't choose me?
> Cut all contact perhaps?? Please help!!!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Captain said:
Translated: "Let's Just be Friends". Sorry buddy. Read the "DJ Bible".
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Possibly.

Or she wants to have her cake and eat it too.

DJ Bible.
 
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I Can't Believe The Bible's Not Definitive!!!111111

My World

Its Upside Down
 
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You don't want to go there...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Thanks guys, so should i just cut it down 2 just friend contact or......???
 
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Derrick94 said:
Thanks guys, so should i just cut it down 2 just friend contact or......???
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Date other women. Keep this one on the side. Don't hide that you are dating (and possibly sleeping with) other women, there's NOTHING WRONG WITH IT. In the future she may ask to be exclusive with you... then the ball is in YOUR court. Good luck.
 
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Next her. Its not going anywhere man trust me.
 
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