“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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"Wait for me"

Derrick94

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I've used the art of turning a female friend into a girlfriend. It seems
> to be a success, until she tells me to call her one night. While having
> this conversation, she tells me she loves me, wants to get closer, but
> she want's to "find herself first".What does this mean? Also, she tells
> me up front that another guy has his eyes on her. She assures me if i
> wait for her it could be worth my wild. So should I wait without knowing
> 4 sure she will choose me? I've known her for about 3/4 of a year n were
> close. I don't want to lose her as a friend because
> 1. I really like this chick
> 2. but I won't b able to stand the sight of her with someone other than me.
> Lastly, how should i go about it if i wait and she doesn't choose me?
> Cut all contact perhaps?? Please help!!!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Captain said:
Translated: "Let's Just be Friends". Sorry buddy. Read the "DJ Bible".
Possibly.

Or she wants to have her cake and eat it too.

DJ Bible.
 

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I Can't Believe The Bible's Not Definitive!!!111111

My World

Its Upside Down
 

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You don't want to go there...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Thanks guys, so should i just cut it down 2 just friend contact or......???
 

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Derrick94 said:
Thanks guys, so should i just cut it down 2 just friend contact or......???
Date other women. Keep this one on the side. Don't hide that you are dating (and possibly sleeping with) other women, there's NOTHING WRONG WITH IT. In the future she may ask to be exclusive with you... then the ball is in YOUR court. Good luck.
 

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Next her. Its not going anywhere man trust me.
 
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