"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Wacky Coeds In Men's Room

kody_starr

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probably shoulda gamed this situation just for fun, but I've been getting frustrated as girls just freeze up around me and are unable to say or do anything.

Anyway, I just finished my workout in the morning and go to the bathroom to wash up. I notice there are three college girl athletes standing in front of the men's room. There's another gym room just next door, so I thought they were just lounging around. I round the corner, and notice one of them has her sweatpants down just above her vag. She pulls her sweatpants up casually as I round the corner. I step by the girls to walk into the men's room.

"Ladies, guy comin!" the same girl announces. I step back. Several girls start giggling inside.
"Where's the girl's room?" another girl asks. I walk around the corner to point it out to them.
"OK, got it," she says sharply.
One girl comes out. "Sorry!" she says.
I step in, but ask if there is anyone else. She says there is.
Another girl comes out giggling, and also says sorry, giggling.

Notes:
The girls didn't seem to be willing to stop me from going in the men's room. But I stopped myself. I shoulda gamed them some, but instead didn't do much, since like I said, I'm frustrated from girls just not being able to do or say anything around me. Any thoughts?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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CaptainJ

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kody_starr said:
probably shoulda gamed this situation just for fun, but I've been getting frustrated as girls just freeze up around me and are unable to say or do anything.

Anyway, I just finished my workout in the morning and go to the bathroom to wash up. I notice there are three college girl athletes standing in front of the men's room. There's another gym room just next door, so I thought they were just lounging around. I round the corner, and notice one of them has her sweatpants down just above her vag. She pulls her sweatpants up casually as I round the corner. I step by the girls to walk into the men's room.

"Ladies, guy comin!" the same girl announces. I step back. Several girls start giggling inside.
"Where's the girl's room?" another girl asks. I walk around the corner to point it out to them.
"OK, got it," she says sharply.
One girl comes out. "Sorry!" she says.
I step in, but ask if there is anyone else. She says there is.
Another girl comes out giggling, and also says sorry, giggling.

Notes:
The girls didn't seem to be willing to stop me from going in the men's room. But I stopped myself. I shoulda gamed them some, but instead didn't do much, since like I said, I'm frustrated from girls just not being able to do or say anything around me. Any thoughts?
It's not that they're not doing or saying anything around you, it's just you're not doing or saying anything around them. In this scenario, you played the typical guy who is unnerved by strange situation presented by giggling girls and calmly gets past it. You must be a Man if you want an interraction and you must boldly interact and INITIATE with the girls. Don't wait for them to try, in fact they already gave you lots of cues for things to say. ALWAYS initiate, don't leave it up to the woman.
 

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Yeah, now that I think about it, those girls were just begging to be put in their place....
 

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Why put them in their place? wouldn't you rather put them in your place? You could have flirted with them-you know " you ladies want to check out another mens room?"
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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kody_starr

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Yeah, I probably shoulda played around with it. Maybe get a bj close in the bathroom? lol. I just thought the following things were odd:

1. five girls in or outside men's room.

2. one girl with her pants down all the way to the vag outside the door.

3. I go in and she doesn't stop me, just tells the girls inside!

I think they wanted an adventure and I was too chicken!
 

Aragon034

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WTF?

okay that's a damned peculiar situation. my gut reaction is "Uhh... is it even physically possible for you to use the urinals?"

I guess without experiencing it i can't say for certain, but more than likely i'd just raise an eyebrow, say something like above, then gauge their reaction.
 

kody_starr

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^These girls were definitely looking for an adventure of some kind, most likely in the prankster, and/or quickie sex vein. I know these are excuses, but, I felt outnumbered, like 5 or 6 girls to one, and I couldn't "tell" if they were protecting their girlfriends inside or if they were all in on a prank. Likely the latter. Silly me, I've been shy lately.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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